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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
1 points

Great Man, be open. Just let the world know u stutter, what can be the worst case scenario? I have many friends, everyone knows I stutter, and none really mocked me or like that except a few. Just enj...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
1 points

Uhh it really depends tbh. It’s weird. I stutter differently around different people. A friend of mine I actually had a crush on made me so comfortable around her I rarely ever stuttered. And when I a...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
2 points

I stutter when trying to say my name as well it’s like a block but I’m learning to just take my time and 80% of the time it does come out smooth and when it doesn’t hey what can you do I’m not gonna a...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
3 points

No yeah it sucks. I 100% feel the emotions you do to, however you must power through. As a college student, I am a tour guide, orientation leader, and hold chair positions. Do I stutter when I speak? ...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
3 points

I used to be super embarassed of it when I was young but I feel like most people get used to it as you get older. The important thing for me was forcing past anxiety and not avoiding situations where...

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2021
68 points

Stuttered on my own name about 7 times last night, and that's okay

Stuttered on my own name about 7 times last night, and that's okay I went out with some friends last night and I met a lot of new people. My name is the thing I stutter with the most, and words that s...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
1 points

So true. I've seen a lot of posts on here of "omg how do i talk to my crush without stuttering????" but I often think if someone's very impatient and intolerant against you stuttering then what does i...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
6 points

Hello there I do all the time, mostly blocking but a little variety. ;) I'm 41 now but when I was your age I felt the same. I felt like I was going to stutter my entire life but then my 20s came aroun...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
1 points

Hey man, sorry if you felt people on this sub were disrespecting you personally. I've certainly tried to be respectful when speaking with you here and I believe I have been. In my opinion, there's ab...

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2021
13 points

How do I stop being embarrassed by my stutter?

How do I stop being embarrassed by my stutter? So for the most part I’m developing pretty good confidence. I’m 17M, I think I look good, I actually asked for a girls number which I never done before s...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2021
3 points

The control we have over our life is an illusion. We can't change how people perceive us, what they think. I'm glad you figured that out. We can have full control of our inner world. It's a lot abou...

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postr/StutterSep 4, 2021
13 points

hey!!! you all matter!!×

hey!!! you all matter!!× remember this!!! you are all very important!!! do not let your voice or how you sound define who you are. I've hurt myself and almost killed myself over it but now i realize....

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2021
7 points

After 33 years of stuttering I’m finally learning that no one really cares. And if they do, then fuck them. We are our own biggest critics. We need to give ourselves a break once in a while. Don’t let...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2021
1 points

110% once you swift the mindset to accepting it for what it is and not labeling it as something negative that's when things changed for me. blocks are annoying, but they don't reflect nothing about y...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2021
3 points

I'm 41. It doesn't bother me or cause me stress at all nor do I notice my stutter much anymore. It doesn't feel like you'll ever get there as a teen but you do. Life is good. :)...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
2 points

Here's a couple of thoughts that have been helpful to me over the years. 1. Let go of the idea of perfect speech. Let's be honest, even fluent speakers aren't perfect, and our stutter probably isn't ...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2021
16 points

Stuttering tip #1

Stuttering tip #1 I can remember the first time I ever Stuttered and it's been a slippery slope with plenty of ups and downs but I have to say it does get better with practice. I've never been to sp...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
3 points

I wholeheartedly agree with that you said. Accepting it as something that's permanent, while simultaneously working to improve, is the best combination I think....

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
3 points

I think accepting my stutter the way it is will be a breath of fresh air. And of course, I also want to improve my speech but first things first is, I shall accept it as a part of me 'cuz I think that...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2021
4 points

It's definitely the way to go mate. People don't react to your stutter, they react to how you react to your stutter. If you accept it and are OK with it. They will be too. It's a snowballing affect....

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