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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
2 points

I also work in retail, have had many times where I just can’t speak, to colleagues or to customers. There’s nothing you can really do about it to cure it totally, but I’ve noticed my speaking is bette...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
2 points

Don't have any tips, just wanted to say this is my experience too, but maybe not because of familiarity but preparedness. The more prepared I am the more I'm likely to stutter. Like if I'm the one ac...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
3 points

Yes, the way other people look at me during these verbal blocks has me under the impression my respect level and my intelligence level is being zapped from me. I often find my self being challenged ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
1 points

Ah nah I don’t think so, I’m more afraid of being judged with people who don’t know I stutter...

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

I had speech therapy all throughout school and it sucked with my stuttering. (Blocking) I went back in 2020 (I’m 22 now) and it was great helped a lot with confidence and that it’s not just a little k...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
3 points

Sounds like another anti-psychotic. Hopefully I’m mistaken. Inhibiting dopamine really sucks the joy out of life. Not sure that’s better than stuttering. Effective treatment for stuttering would be am...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
1 points

i just think since everyone else does it in times of embarrassment, lying, etc.,thats all they know. some people arent mean just to be mean and genuinely dont know its a disability, so of course meeti...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
10 points

Recently had a big meeting at work. I stuttered but I was fine and felt surprisingly relaxed. That is until we left the meeting and my coworker was all like “omg you were so nervous!” I just interna...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

Maybe you subconsciously know they are judging you? If so, you might be afraid to be judged, giving you anxiety and thus more stutter....

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

I had a brief panic attack just reading about your experience. As a teen, I probably would have just straight up quit the team. I’m a woman in my 40’s who’s now a preschool teacher, and taught myse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
3 points

You'll never stutter when talking to a pet or a baby, and do you know why? Because they can't judge you. Stutterers have a terrible fear of being judged....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 8, 2022
13 points

Stuttering during role call

Stuttering during role call So I’m on a sports team and during our races we have to travel to other states on team buses, and to make sure that everyone is in the bus each time they write a number on ...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
20 points

Almost all impactful dysfluency is almost entirely about a type of specific social anxiety. My sister had an articulation disorder and couldn’t say her own name ever. Her name was like Shannon, but...

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postr/StutterNov 8, 2022
19 points

stuttering when alone?

stuttering when alone? Is this just me but when I'm alone talking to myself I don't stammer at all, which makes me think my stammer is mainly to do with anxiety around other people....

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2022
2 points

Yep. People say no one cares, but they do care where I live at least. I think it also matters if your stutter is severe or not. You can get away with a mild stutter....

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Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2022
1 points

I would say disclosing it is good, listing it as a weakness is bad. I did manager training for my job and was asked what my weaknesses are. I said my anxiety and my stutter. Ever since then it has bee...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 7, 2022
4 points

Any advice for a new job

Any advice for a new job I'm starting a new job this week at a fast food place I haven't worked in one since I was younger and am really worried about them trying to make me take orders either on the ...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
1 points

Hmmm… did your colleagues think that about you? It was it just you thinking that about you? (I think most ppl don’t think about it as much as we do.)...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
4 points

The worst experience I’ve had with my stutter was my required public speaking class in college, and I really wish I had disclosed it with my class during the “what’s one thing you are nervous about wi...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2022
21 points

No, I wouldn’t do that. Instead I would start the interview by disclosing my stutter to the interviewer. This takes off a lot of pressure of your shoulders and, if you do end up stuttering, have estab...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career