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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
3 points

I do agree that in a sense stuttering openly makes us braver. But I think if we use a word enough it can become a fluent word, so then our fear actually decreases. Yes, I think a speech impediment i...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
11 points

Absolutely this. For your sake, explain to them about the disability so you can protect yourself. As someone who also stutters, sometimes we just want to mask our stutter so people don’t know we have ...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
4 points

Not ever, and now I wouldn’t ever because I’ve seen how karma works when it comes to making fun of my stutter...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
1 points

I get what you are saying and do agree it might not be the best fit for everyone. Not everyone has to do every job but if someone really wanted to, I believe they could. As someone who has been told...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

This! Stand up for yourself even if it’s hard. If they are your friends they will quit it and if not, you don’t need them in your life. In school, it can feel so hard and impossible but you have so ma...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
2 points

Thankfully I had good friends growing up that were understanding, empathetic, and didn't give af, but i've had coworkers that were assholes. My advice, grow confidence in yourself as an individual and...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
5 points

thank you, ive been trying to just not really focus on my stutter and not make it such a big deal...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
5 points

We all hate our stutter and that is why we all still stutter. We have to accept it and stop trying so hard no to stutter, this is what causes it. It’s a vicious cycle that will never end unless we cha...

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postr/StutterDec 8, 2021
16 points

Succesful Management: Agency and Much-Improved Fluency

Succesful Management: Agency and Much-Improved Fluency Welcome to my latest post. I’ve been reading through the research on stuttering for almost a year now, and there’s a lot to be learned from it. I...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
2 points

Honestly fuck everybody else. You went up there and gave it your all and that’s all that matters. We are stronger than most people because of this, stay up...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
2 points

Yes!! Love this. It is SOOO true that once you stop caring so much, it minimizes your stutter. Thank you for sharing!...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
1 points

Hahahahahaha this hit me right in the feels. At this point I say “either you heard it or you missed it”...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
4 points

Couldn’t agree with you more. I went through this in my own journey and once I truly stopped giving a fuck about what other people think, it not only minimized my stutter to what it is now, a mild dis...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
2 points

No negative life impact from stuttering. The actual answer is different for everyone, but I think most of us want to not have to worry or even much think about stuttering, communicate joyfully, great...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
3 points

Oh, I had an impression you were young. I'm happy to hear that, man. I agree. With the struggles stuttering puts us in, we definitely have to become the heroes of our own story. Best of luck to you....

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

Thanks for the info on the videos. I had a happy dating life with 2 girls when I was in 20s and married to one ,living peacefully with 2 boy kids and as a 39 year old software programmer, I no more wo...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
5 points

Yes, brother. Work on yourself and your goals. That alone puts you ahead of many others. Don't apologize for your stuttering, or feel like you owe people something. No matter the fault, women love an ...

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postr/StutterDec 5, 2021
9 points

When I'm truly happy, relaxed or so passionate about the thing I'm talking about my stutter totally goes away. Is anyone else like this and do you have any tips on how to stop at all if this is the case?

When I'm truly happy, relaxed or so passionate about the thing I'm talking about my stutter totally goes away. Is anyone else like this and do you have any tips on how to stop at all if this is the ca...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
3 points

It starts from within. You need to find a way to be confident with yourself regardless and understand that you are not your stutter. It’s only something that you do sometimes. Think to yourself, if ...

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
1 points

I like that idea! I just have no idea how to especially since I've spent my entire life being embarrassed and ashamed by it...

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