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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

For health problem i mean anything "bad" you can inherit. Also if you don't consider your stutter a problem then you're very lucky...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

How is it selfish to have a kid? Do I wish to not have stutter at all? Ofcourse I do. But there is nothing important that I wasnt able to do because of it. I would love my kid to have the same youth...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

Dude i wish you the best, you seem a very cool guy and you don't deserve this. Hopefully you'll find a person who'll appreciate you for who you are...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

When will a cure for stuttering happen?

When will a cure for stuttering happen? Therapy is useless and ineffective for stuttering most of the time. I been to speech therapy and i still stutter alot and struggle to speak, i have very bad soc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
3 points

I have never thought about it like that. My stutter is annoying as f*ck but is something I have learned to live with. It hasnt stopped me from doing anything. It would suck if my child also does. But ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
3 points

Stuttering is all in your head. I am sure you have heard this by now but I’ll just reiterate. Most stutterers can actually speak perfectly fluently on their own. Stuttering is all in your head. The tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
5 points

You are going to need a job at some point why not now? One thing that helped me is understanding this: life is going to be very hard and embarrassing for us at times. But interestingly, that’s how you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 14, 2020
7 points

To those who got your stutter from a parent, do you also have a harder time speaking to them?

To those who got your stutter from a parent, do you also have a harder time speaking to them? Its like I go into my fathers head and feel shame that he gave me this stutter whenever I have a long stut...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

7 years of speech therapy (kindergarten until the end of 6th grade). You have to keep at it, I was fortunate that my school had classes for it. It will never go away, you have to self manage and not g...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

I know you feel my man. The thing is, stuttering isn't something you can cure. The only thing you can do is train yourself to deal with it. You sound like a determined person - you and your therapist ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
3 points

I feel like I only mention it if I happen to stutter. If I don’t, then I’m basically silent about it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
2 points

> But then the insecure part of me keeps telling me that I am defective and I’ll be lucky to find anyone who will put up with me. Feel you! Hope things go well for you....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
2 points

Honestly it’s not even that big of a deal when you tell him. The weight that comes off your shoulder will make you feel so much better. What’s holding you back from telling him?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

Yea most people know I stutter as soon as I open my mouth lol. This time’s different only because we’ve never heard each other speak. That’s why I’m worried. But I’m just gonna say it and hope for the...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

Thank you for your advice! Part of me knows that I shouldn’t put up with that kind of negativity, but part of me also feels like I’d be lucky to find somebody who actually accepts me. I guess I still ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
2 points

35yo here.. I've never had to tell anyone. In fact, most people knew I had a stutter before dating me. I've only had one person actually ask me about it. She said "why do you get nervous sometimes whe...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
2 points

First of all, thank you for reading my post and replying to me. And secondly, the rational side of me keeps saying that he’s not gonna care (and if he does he’s not worth my time). But then the insecu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

I was exactly like you, I had it at 11/12, and my parents was thinking that I was faking it. It's not faking don't worry. After times, they will realize that it's not faking. Sometimes family just don...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

I’ve found that anything that puts me in a better headspace has a positive impact on my speech. Incidentally, exercises I explicitly do to “fix” my stutter have almost no effect....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

Not as a stutterer but as a person who is 30: there’ll be a time in your life everything else is forgotten, but the memory of having done so....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception