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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

I believe in you! Disclose your stutter and then do your best! You got this....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Yes, disclosing one's stutter is the way to do it. People aren't used to speaking with a person who stutters and, like you said, that may lead to misunderstandings. Fear will always be present in some...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

You're right. All it takes is a little courage to face the hurdle even if you're scared. Even fluent people face rejection all the time, it's an unavoidable part of the process. If anything, disclosin...

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Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
6 points

Crazy me coming across this cause I literally went through this two weeks ago when I had to interview for a job too! You described a lot of what I went through as well. It was birthday last week and I...

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Employment & CareerHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
3 points

I prefaced I had a stutter with my last two jobs I got and 100% recommend. Not telling them leaves a lot of room for interpretation of me being nervous or not confident in my answers, as you know. Tha...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 21, 2024
8 points

Rapping to help speech technique/tip

Rapping to help speech technique/tip We've all heard that many people don't stutter when they sing. Well I've found the same thing happens with rapping. I have stuttered for years but have become ver...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability+2 more
postr/StutterOct 21, 2024
163 points

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer.

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer. I won't write a wall of text about my life story, the job, or the company. I just wanted to share this to hopefully give some of you hope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2024
3 points

This is why it’s good to have a gauge in the persons intentions I normally see when someone just has genuinely good intentions, like finishing my sentence for me to help me get it out.. in some inst...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
postr/StutterOct 19, 2024
10 points

Well this is the first.

Well this is the first. 26M (gay) was on a dating site & this older gentlemen offered me some money to go clean a couple rugs he had. I’m about to go to on a trip so I need the extra money. Before I l...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 17, 2024
6 points

Impact on my career or not

Impact on my career or not Hello all, I am having a struggle at work that I need some perspectives on and I think this thread could be helpful. Background I am a stutterer since childhood. Have ha...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAccess & RightsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2024
5 points

Heya! Currently in speech therapy and stutter has improved DRASTICALLY in less than 6 months. Even gave a presentation last week to a class of ~50 people, of course I stuttered here and there but nev...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2024
-2 points

Stuttering seems like drunk driving? That’s a new one. Exaggerating much! I live in a conservative red state with racist cops all around. I’ve been pulled over quite a few times. Yes I have stutte...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2024
1 points

In this very thread you can find people who have been accused of drunk driving and other things due to their stuttering. This is not an attempt to gain empathy from the officer. It is to inform what...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2024
17 points

Maybe the King’s Speech? It’s a movie about one of the kings of England who stuttered, and his struggle with balancing that with also being king. And it’s a great movie in general! But also I think ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Personal StoriesDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 16, 2024
28 points

How to tell my girlfriend about the struggle with the stutter

How to tell my girlfriend about the struggle with the stutter My girlfriend and I have been together for two months now and I already told her about my stutter but I don't think she understands the st...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Personal StoriesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2024
1 points

Hmmm interesting.. didn't know they had this.. a majority of police I ran into weren't super a-hole after I told em I stuttered. Did have two close calls tho. I'm glad nothing happened to you during...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
11 points

I love this. I have a 'stutter' card that basically tells them I stutter and what they can expect when communicating with me. Thankfully I haven't had to provide it yet. I have a couple in my wallet....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
11 points

Sooo as a black woman PWS, I would love if this were a thing for me locally. I understand why people wouldn’t be too keen about it, but my biggest fear is that the cop thinks I’m nervous or being susp...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
13 points

Do you have a link to that card? I've had police accuse me of drinking and driving, so yes, I agree, this would come in handy....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
44 points

The National Institute for Stuttering has a card that you can request to place in your vehicle if you are stopped by the police. I've used it once, and I was given a warning. I did a podcast show a...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersStress & Fight/Flight