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postr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
19 points

I feel like I am crazy

I feel like I am crazy A few months ago I finally decided to go to a therapist and today i had my first appointment at a speech therapist. At both of those meetings I almost didn’t stutter, because we...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
4 points

It happens rarely what when in happens It hurts a lot. About three weeks ago I had to present myself ti a brunch of people and among them there was a girl. As soon as I had finished my sentenze She st...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
8 points

I feel like I get judged more from not talking at all (usually because I can feel a block coming on) more than when I talk and stutter...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
2 points

Medicine interview on Tuesday please give advice

Medicine interview on Tuesday please give advice I have a medicine interview for medicine for a university in the south of England and I am having to get the flight there from Ireland. Obviously I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
17 points

No I agree with this. As soon as I tell a group of people I have a stutter, 8/10 they stop listening to me speak, they ignore/interrupt me (even when I’m not in a block and I’m fluent), or just don’t ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
1 points

If you don’t disclose at the beginning, but start obviously blocking, do you disclose then? I feel like sometimes people don’t understand what’s going on and give weird looks. That’s why I’ve started ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
6 points

Any people working in tech?

Any people working in tech? I'm trying to land my first role as a Software Engineer. I feel like my moderate-to-severe stuttering has been holding me back in interviews. Are there any Software Enginee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
1 points

Yeah I'm thinking the same, being around people who are like me might help me feel less alone and less judged I'm just sacred im gone be put with people who are much older then me since im gone be 18 ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
1 points

I think the subconscious mind introduces blocks, because it is dealing with an anxiety response...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
1 points

I found that it was a circular problem. Yes, we stutter more when we’re anxious, but knowing we will stutter makes us anxious. It's a vicious feedback loop...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
9 points

What can I do to better my stutter?

What can I do to better my stutter? Hello, I'm 15M and have stuttered since I was like 11 due to some trauma so I began to take breaks between my words and now I have speech blocks. At least that's th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
1 points

My belief is that the increase in fear strengthens the negative feedback loop and then the stuttering increases...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
2 points

U have anxiety because you stutter, but the anxiety makes your stutter worse....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
2 points

They go hand in hand. Most likely though, the stutter gave you anxiety. I’ve had one since I remember and as a kid, I never cared about it. As I got older, it got worse due to the anxiety that came wi...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
1 points

omg i was thinking ab this too recently !!!! i’ve had phases of stuttering when i was a child but since high school, it’s stuck now and i think bc i would get so anxious ab stuttering , that it was al...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
5 points

Fear and Regret

Fear and Regret My stutter has been really bad lately and Im getting ready to graduate college soon. Yesterday I didn’t go to a networking event at my school because introducing myself in comes with s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
2 points

I am trying to fix , do you know a place/platform where i can practice? I have to ask a girl out and i am really scared........

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
4 points

I have that too, probably because when we meet someone we don't know, we try not to stutter and not make an impression that we have this problem, while with close friends and family they already know ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
1 points

i totally get your points and most are valid. i do think you need to try to work on shifting your overall negative perspective on life right now - it’s not gonna help you get anywhere. definitely easi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
16 points

My confidence decides if i stutter less or more or don't at all.....

My confidence decides if i stutter less or more or don't at all..... I talk clearly with my close friends and family..... But i cannot speak a sentence without stuttering when speaking to strangers......

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment