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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
3 points

I don’t think we should be calling things unattractive. Especially if it’s out of your control. That’s not up to us to jump to conclusions as it’s super subjective. Speech can be a factor for attracti...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
9 points

Of course stuttering is not attractive. No secret there. The better someone speaks, the more charming they are. But so what? Confidence is a much bigger factor. And a lot of stutterers lack confiden...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

Ohh, alcohol. That was my relief for couple of years. Drank every single time I went out with friends, lunch, events, picnics. It made my anxiety and fear go away making me feel more comfortable and c...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Harmful Med OutcomesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
1 points

Alcohol is not a solution. Yes, it may be a relief or a quick fix, but it is not a feasible long term solution. Hence, don’t drink alcohol BECAUSE of your stutter, drink alcohol for whatever other rea...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
4 points

On the flip side, I am a woman. Egg donors earn a lot of money, tens of thousands of dollars! I thought about it but never actually submitted an application or anything for this exact reason. The scre...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
2 points

I'm personally not having kids because I don't want to pass this on to anyone else but I totally understand the reasoning to want to have the despite it. If a scientific cure comes about I would but u...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
3 points

True! I’d like to think that if I do have kids one day and one of them has a stutter I would never let them feel like they’re below anyone. I feel like I’ve already felt the world on my shoulders with...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
7 points

A stutter should not stop you from anything, that includes having children. There’s definitely a chance your children will have a stutter…but so what? Teach them to love themselves and to not let thei...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
5 points

Wow that’s awesome. Can’t say I have positive experiences from stuttering but that’s mainly because I’ve never tried to see it as positive. But maybe I’ve been missing some positive moments due to emb...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
1 points

I’d love a copy, I need to accept my speech. I think that’s much more reasonable than me buying into any of these programs that make wild promises about dramatically improved fluency....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
2 points

Peer review research cost money and who shall pay for it? There are a lot of success stories and before / after videos which confirms it. I have also been through this and can confirm it works. Some...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
2 points

Glad that worked out for you. If you do it regularly for 1 month, you'll find it easier and easier to intiate and hold converations with anyone, even strangers. Voluntarily stuttering simply reinforce...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
3 points

I think (in my opinion) it’s just as much psychological as it is physical. I think that we psyche ourselves out KNOWING we can and most likely will get a block or stutter on something, and then we thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 25, 2022
25 points

Batman’s mentality to help stuttering

Batman’s mentality to help stuttering Hello everyone I don’t know if people here have seen the latest Batman movie, but there’s a very inspiring quote from Batman that really helps me deal with my stu...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
2 points

it depends on my whole mood - if i'm having a bad day i'll go for the easy option and get something that i can say, if i have a good day ill usually say a few words before the dish i want to order to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
2 points

Okay!!! I will do this. My stutter is 90% just blocks, so this will be something fresh. Maintaining eye contact is something I find crucial as well. I already practiced today and felt great. It’s a ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
1 points

When I was at school, I used to avoid saying words which would make me stutter. I used to stay silent rather than running the risk of stuttering, but not anymore. Take care not to stutter, but if it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
1 points

Thank you for the kind words. I am fortunate I’m able to get out and do stuff but even with these hobbies, I’m at the point where doing them alone is becoming more and more hazardous and it’s difficul...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

Have you considered being upfront and honest with people and just tell them you stutter? You need to take all that pressure off yourself. I used to give my teachers a note on the first day of every ne...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
1 points

I order the food I want to eat regardless of the stutter. I definitely get not doing so though, I understand....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride