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commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
8 points

Hm, if you already know she won't mind your stutter then that's a huge relief, that should lighten up the mood. Maybe start talking slowly, the more confident you get the more fluent you'll become, t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
6 points

Feel this. I have a stutter since I was 13 and it made me heavily insecure. I went years without talking to people outside of the family or in fear because people would mock me whenever I made weird f...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 7, 2021
19 points

Overcoming my stutter

Overcoming my stutter 1 year ago I put a post on here, talking about how down and depressed I was about my stuttering. I was in such a bad place and it was on my mind 24/7. I was terrified to open my ...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
2 points

It happened to me as well but I was removed to a new country with new language and environment that I was forced to adapt to. Admittedly, it wasn't easy at all especially with a new language and havin...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 7, 2021
22 points

Stuttering makes me feel low eventhough I've some valuable talents.

Stuttering makes me feel low eventhough I've some valuable talents. I used to speak much well to anybody when I was small. But nowadays due to stuttering, it gives me anxiety whenever I try to talk an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
1 points

Appreciate it - I’m in my 50s now. I hope young people with this problem avail themselves of support that is available. This thing really encourages avoidance, isolation and self-loathing but it rea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
1 points

I feel that. While you are now in your 20s, your fathers impact in how you perceive the world is over. He had his chance and he clearly failed, however that is not the end story. You now have the oppo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 6, 2021
9 points

I need some confidence

I need some confidence I have a stutter but when I’m relaxed and not nervous I can speak fluently and confidently. I have a college interview coming up next week Friday....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
2 points

Thank you for your reply. Yes, as you might have probably guessed, my stutter is mild, can variate a lot depending on the people. Yea, sometimes the fear comes back, but I think the more you experienc...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
19 points

If by avoid you mean hiding it on purpose, you don't. As difficult as it may be just be yourself and do not try to hide it. Years down the road you will be much happier about the way you feel about ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
5 points

My maternal uncle has been teaching for like 30 years. He is a stutter. I think it’s genetic I have it too. Buts despite his stutter he is an excellent teacher. He even became the principal of the col...

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Genetic & Family FactorsEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 6, 2021
22 points

Any stutters who wants to be a teacher? How do you feel motivated

Any stutters who wants to be a teacher? How do you feel motivated to be specific, I would like to be a language teacher. I feel like I don’t have any hope for it ....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
5 points

Well stuttering hasn’t given any good things in my life. As you know, living with a stutter is a big challenge. I got bullied a lot in school and my parents still doesn’t understand. But my stutter ha...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
4 points

What a great question. I think it's taught me a lot. From literally being unhappy to being extremely happy and finding joy in the smallest things. \-I can walk. Anywhere, literally. I can go to the p...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 5, 2021
12 points

What has stuttering taught you?

What has stuttering taught you? I know it's a really deep and weird question, but I really want to talk about stuttering for my college essays because it's such a huge aspect of my life; however, I'm ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
2 points

I'd say you made a fair analysis over the cause of your stuttering. Pay a visit to a speech therapist, it should help. In the mean while, just follow some of the pointers I made earlier ( points A, ...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
3 points

The same thing basically happened to me. Don’t panic. Ask your family to go see a SLP and Doctor. There is a chance that you developed a speech impediment and you need some good advice right now. If t...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

When I was 17 I was also thinking that I will die before my 25th Birthday so I dont need to suffer anymore. But then I found a good speech therapy that changed my life. After few years I stuttered ag...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

A very inspirational comment indeed! Thank you 🤗. The thing that I think ? Frightens ? me personally is the fact that due to me having an utterly shitty youth in the CPS system, my self esteem is al...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
5 points

Not to brag or anything but today I totally made a phone call to a place I want to work at next year that I had been putting off for months. It was super awkward and I struggled through it, which is o...

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