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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
1 points

I feel the same way. It really kills me because I think it’s really easy to talk to people and form friendships. but I stutter so I stay quiet. I hope it goes well for you though! Rooting for you....

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Helplessness & AgencyFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterNov 4, 2021
12 points

feeling isolated

feeling isolated I feel like I have NO ONE irl that can understand how I feel, I feel so isolated and alone every day just feels like a new stressful hurdle and I constantly get mocked for a speech im...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
2 points

I’m in a glass box and everyone I’ve ever known and everyone I’ll ever come in contact with is surrounding the glass box. I can see and *hear* what everyone is saying. I see them all mingling with e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
4 points

You pretty much said exactly how I feel. People don’t really know the true me because of how many walls I put up to prevent a stutter. Guess this view isn’t uncommon among stutterers, so it’s at least...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
11 points

This is exactly my life. And yes, I am completely exhausted. I come home everyday feeling like I’ve been practically physically assaulted. Feels impossible to actually get close to people living like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
11 points

I feel you. I really embraced being alone when I was a severe stutterer. I'm not presenting that as a positive. There are some healthy things about being able to enjoy times alone. But we all need to ...

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postr/StutterOct 21, 2021
34 points

I’m so cripplingly lonely and frustrated

I’m so cripplingly lonely and frustrated I’m well over a month into university, and it seems like everyone has already made strong friendships. While I did do well in the first week of university, I’v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
2 points

That's just loneliness. I was there for a loong time. I used my stutter as an excuse to think I'll be alone forever. You won't be. You will meet someone, until then keep texting....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
2 points

I'm really sorry you have to deal with ignorance on a daily basis; it's rough. I just wanted to say: despite the fact we'll likely never meet, I don't stutter myself and don't have any close relation...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
2 points

i've had it happen to me multiple times. People think you are just straight up rude, but its also to long to explain in the short period of time. Best to just get on with your day. You probably won't ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
10 points

Growing up I thought I was the only one who stuttered until I met another PWS at age 20. It's very sad growing up alone, eating your school lunch in the janitors closet. I never knew how to make f...

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Friendships & BelongingValidation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
54 points

Lonely

Lonely I’m 25 and I don’t know anyone else who stutters and, most days I just wish I had someone who gets it. No one knows how exhausted I am some times just trying to speak and get through the day. N...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Loneliness & IsolationHiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
9 points

Don't think so, unfortunately. Different reasons for the stutter, different personalities etc. make it hard...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterOct 6, 2021
12 points

good to know ya'll exist

good to know ya'll exist Kid from a relatively small town / city. Only kid in my school that stuttered, only kid in my high school also....shitty to think as i wish none of you had to experience what...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Loneliness & IsolationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
5 points

I feel you, I’m also almost always on the outside looking in. So hard to break into conversations when people are talking fast and take no regard to your stutter. Also people often choose to speak wit...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & BelongingAudience Scale & Group Size+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
4 points

I felt exactly the same at uni. After fresher’s week I isolated myself from my flatmates because I didn't want them to discover I was stutterer which made me absolutely miserable seeing them go outsid...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Loneliness & IsolationSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterOct 2, 2021
16 points

I need help

I need help Hi everyone, I’ve led myself down a path to where I currently have no friends. I live in England and am in college. During free periods, break and lunch I spend my time alone with only my ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
8 points

I wouldn't say extroverted but I'm definitely not shy or an introvert as my stutter has tried to make me be. My main reason for avoiding human interaction is to avoid speaking....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
2 points

You know, in reality no one really cares that you stutter and the sooner you understand it the sooner you you'll feel better. I've been stuttering for 13 years (I'm 17 currently) and it still isn't go...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
6 points

Worst feeling ever ,feeling like a prisoner in your mind . I felt t yesterday when j went to hangout with my friends ....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation