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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2023
2 points

That sounds really good. I stay away from multiplayer oriented games expecting communication because of my stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
8 points

A big part of stuttering is the psychological fear of stuttering. We became stressed that we're about to stutter in social interactions and that stress causes us to stutter. Saying your name while mee...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
2 points

This is my attempt to summarize your comment: **Unhelpful beliefs/attitudes:** * unhelpful beliefs/attitudes may lead to speech blocks * stress response could lead to becoming hyper-aware, hyper-sen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2023
21 points

I stutterer but but get emotionally overwhelmed when I hear someone else stutter. How can I desensitize myself?

I stutterer but but get emotionally overwhelmed when I hear someone else stutter. How can I desensitize myself? If anyone should be patient with another's speech impediment, it should be me. But I tri...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
3 points

Yes i am afraid of being judged and also express myself. Maybe I've had trauma but don't exactly remember what happened!...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
2 points

No sweat! Yes, I feel what you're saying. It's all just so weird. Lets say I can't say 'pencil', I will be able say 'encil' without a problem. At the end of the day, I think words/letters/syllable...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
3 points

Around 7 yrs old, still a bed wetter, with a Mom that had no patience for a less than perfect child. So wrapped up in the judgement of my beautiful perfect mother, that I just started having a thoug...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
7 points

That's good news. It means your stutter is 100% psychological. You have no neurological problem! I'm not as lucky as you. Sometimes I stutter when I read too. There are many possible explanations. If...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2023
2 points

Sure buddy. Few things like breathing exercises and yoga, talking slowly. I won't say techniques but a positive mindset. Earlier i had much worse anxiety issues like talking with some known person wh...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMay 5, 2023
6 points

How do you handle confrontation?

How do you handle confrontation? When it comes to having to defend something you did/said in front of a group, how do you usually do? Is your narrative building as strong as the one the other person i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
22 points

look at it this way…you’re wife doesn’t care about your stutter coz she loves you (i hope), you shouldn’t care about what the waitress thinks coz you’re not gonna see her again...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
7 points

Weird girls? Just because a girl isn’t popular doesn’t make her a weirdo. You say there’s no room for you to be picky but you already are. Which isn’t bad, you shouldn’t date someone just for the sake...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
3 points

I have and I think they thought it wouldn't be as bad still, because they still react negatively and have no patience....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 5, 2023
20 points

A Little Rant - New to the Group

A Little Rant - New to the Group Hello, I'm a female stutterer (20f) who had an interview today. The lady who was conducting it insisted phone call to my dismay. I asked if we could do it in person or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterMay 5, 2023
25 points

Trauma from bullying

Trauma from bullying Like a lot of people who were born with a stutter, I have been subjected to bullying all my life. From the start of preschool I’ve have had people mock and and make fun of me. Thi...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
2 points

Sure, maybe some weird girls. But truthfully I wouldn't fit in with them. I'm not actually very weird, I just stutter. I also feel like there's no room for me to be even slightly picky, which sounds h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
2 points

I began to stutter 4 years ago. It came out of no where. I previously had no problem speaking. After it happened I noticed that I would stop talking to people became more anxious and avoided being aro...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
5 points

I couldn't have written it better. I wholeheartedly feel you. Wish I could help you, others & myself, but I don't know how. Everything I do is being overshadowed by by stuttering. Not just GF, it'...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
1 points

Yes. Tried many kind of therapies. Nothing helped. Mine is too probably because of anxiety. I'm stuttering since I cold speak, so maybe it's half of genetic. Also I was born with head injury, it could...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
2 points

I'm learning Dutch now and I struggle speaking it :( I have always noticed it's all about confidence that has to do with stuttering....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment