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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
0 points

"I am not an idiot, I can help you, so you can just talk normally. I just have a stutter."...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
5 points

by telling them that you stutter. sometimes people do that because they don’t understand what’s happening....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
6 points

Stuttering is rare, so it’s understandable that they are surprised; but treating you differently is inappropriate. Maybe a response like, “there’s nothing wrong with me; I stutter.”...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

Yes, definitely, but what I really meant was that you should try to talk to that person some time and stutter more freely. I've had similar experiences as you and that person was rude/indifferent to m...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
3 points

That's true, but it is universally considered rude to not acknowledge the person who went out of their way to do something kind for you. I do agree that their main goal shouldn't be to get a thanks th...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
6 points

Thanks for the advice, I was actually so focused on the words thank you that I forgot about nodding my head in the heat of the moment. The brain is a really complex thing we you think about it....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
4 points

I totally understand. I allow others to push every boundary because I can't speak up to object. I just avoid confrontation because its easier not to speak up to even ask for my needs to be met either...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

He probably didn’t notice. If he did I’m sure he doesn’t remember. Have you ever held the door open for someone and not received a thank you? Happens to me all the time. I don’t keep a mental tally of...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

I would do exactly as the other comments state and also consider stuttering in front of that person so that they know what's up!...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
2 points

Honestly, you know what I think, don’t do something kind to get something back from others, sure a thank you is nice, but don’t do something just for something....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
7 points

if u see him again, just hold the door for him so he knows his gesture is being reciprocated! also for future scenarios where ur unable to say "thank u", just do the smile + nod combo 😁 it's a great...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
34 points

Stuttering is not your fault. You know on the inside that you meant to say thank you. If he’s pissed off, it’s his problem. Forgive yourself, you tried....

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2024
1 points

I also had those people in my life and I just cut them off, I don't want to say it but you should also....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2024
0 points

Do what you feel in necessary for you. I think it would be beneficial to you to let your roommates know you're working on yourself. They'll gain more respect for you that way as they may see you being...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2024
0 points

Whatever feels comfortable to you, but from my pov outside looking in, you shouldnt be roomates with people who are gonna judge or be annoyed at you for learning how to speak fluently and/or tips to h...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2024
1 points

Good habit. Introduce yourself and advise you have a speech impediment at the beginning of the interview. Look them in the eye, offer it with your introduction and say "so just be patient with me if...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
1 points

Same but mine starts with an I. If it’s a situation where I need to use my actual name I disclose my stutter either before or after I say my name and just accept my name isn’t going to come out smooth...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
2 points

When i couldnt say my name, i said may catchphrase "i am a stutterer and i cant say may name, but if u want i can spell it". Was kind of hard to bring up the courage at first, but i got used to it. An...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2024
0 points

Asking people to stop finishing your sentences is a big step. Glad you were able to do it so young. it took me a minute....

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2024
8 points

- Talk to your parents & see if your new High school has an IEP for speech therapy. - See if you speak with your all teachers on the 1st day of class privately & let them know you have a stutter/spe...

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