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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
3 points

You got this. Accept your stutter and explain it to the person, or don't explain it and just simply stutter purposefully so the person sees and understands....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
21 points

Just explain to them you have stutter no need in hiding it I realized if I just owned and accepted the fact that i stuttered I felt great and stuttered less people still treated me the same and anyone...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

Sure, no problem :)) First of all, stutter is truly a habit, but at the same time, we should know that stutter has 2 major side effects: 1. Visual Stutter (actual stuttering such as: repeating words...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

Where abouts do you live? I’m in the Scotland and September is the end of summer so I find that I start to deteriorate around then. Suicide rates (not saying you are suicidal) are highest in April (sp...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

"Isn't observing the trigger and not reacting to it the same as ignoring it?" No, observing is the opposite of ignoring. Imagine this, I look at a photo of Ronaldino losing against FC Barcelona. My re...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
3 points

You aren’t your stutter. Repeat that. Please. Verbally in a mirror. Thank you (:...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
4 points

It’s okay! I think we feel more shame when we stutter around people that we usually feel comfortable with. But you shouldn’t feel shame about it. It’s apart you and so you should live unapologetically...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
2 points

"How can I apply this in my life in order to remove stuttering?" > Firstly, there are strategies to remove stuttering VS strategies to remove stuttering completely. > One can remove stuttering ...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
2 points

Hard blocks happen *because* you are trying to be fluent. The more you accept that you stutter, the less you try to be fluent, *and the more fluent you become*...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
1 points

I want to say you can be a great worker with stutter, we need to accept it...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
2 points

Hey man, if you stutter then you stutter. That's okay. Don't put that pressure on yourself. You'll do great....

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2022
2 points

You argue 'fighting compulsion or rituals makes stuttering worse'. \> Situation: we all know or feel when we are about to stutter. Let's call this a trigger. Note: this is not the problem (becaus...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2022
4 points

Weird 'altruism' thought+advice from a man who has nearly overcome stuttering!

Weird 'altruism' thought+advice from a man who has nearly overcome stuttering! I am holding a weird altruism(or else) thought recently that it would be the best that there was only me stuttering and t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

I don't do the breathing consciously as a way to avoid stuttering. I just do it on the side (maybe 5-10 minutes a day) because it's healthier to breathe through the gut than the chest in my experience...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

You argue that there is no cure so stutter therapies don't focus on removing stuttering. That's right! There have been no people who have removed stuttering with therapy because there is no cure. 80% ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
1 points

If we don't think at all, then we don't stutter because then we distract ourselves from the stutter anticipation (the trigger) which causes us not to feel or know that we will stutter. Like any class...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

" a stutterer thinks: word-scan-word-scan-word-scan-word-scan-word-scan" \> so, you are saying that a stutterer scans for a stutter. In think you are right on the money, stutterers know or feel a ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

You three people are talking over each other: \- one is trying to convey 'techniques' support accepting compulsion \- one is trying to convey 'techniques' contradict removing stuttering permanently ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
5 points

Fluency shaping is definitely a self-enclosing loop headed straight towards hell, but let's stop the bullshit dude. It's not stigma. Fluency is obviously the default and desirable alternative whereas ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
3 points

You got this bro even If you stutter Its ok just own It and let It be don't try to hide It because It will make you more anxious and nervous, I'm sending good vibes to you good luck bro 🥲...

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