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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
6 points

I would first ask her what she wants you to do that. Since you are new to dating her, she may be appreciative and open to discussing it. Don't be surprised however, if you get the opposite and the per...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

In my life time I’ve only met one lady who stuttered and we ended up dating for about a year!...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
2 points

OMG this post looks almost the same as my boyfriend and me!!! He had tried speech therapy as I suggested. However, the effect is not as good enough as what we have expected, and he still avoids to tal...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
4 points

Sounds like me, lol. There’s no other feeling like someone asking you something as simple as your name, and you can’t even get a sound out. Honestly, the best thing you can do is simply express how yo...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
16 points

Just show him this. This is beautiful! My husband loves my stutter and has always said it’s made me who I am today. Knowing that he accepts a part of me that I hate is extremely comforting. All this t...

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postr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
38 points

Relationship Help

Relationship Help Apologies if I mess this up, it’s my first time on Reddit! I have a bf with a stutter that I think results from spasms in his diaphragm. He’s had it since childhood (we’re both unive...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
1 points

Yeah ik that I'm young but I already fear that I will die alone. Not everyone would be okay with dating a stutterer, even less with dating someone with low self esteem and mental health problems, EV...

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postr/StutterJan 31, 2025
20 points

Has anybody on here ever payed for female intimacy?

Has anybody on here ever payed for female intimacy? I'm sorry to ask this bc I know this is a touchy topic...but I have to ask because even though I've heard from many people seeing escorts is patheti...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

If you live in the USA please come to the National Stuttering Association conference. There are so many girls your age from all over the US to meet and make friends with. And who knows, you may make a...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

You become dateable by loving who you are first including with a stutter. One of the best things I’ve ever been told was to build your garden first and butterflies will come to you. I understand and e...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

Facts. Not that shit "be yourself" and "find your person". There needs to be another book of advice for bad looking people, instead of those cliche answers....

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

Maybe, you are looking way up too high above your level, if you know what I mean. Stuttering actually like any other disability makes you look worse in the eyes of others, with stuttering it's even wo...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
2 points

I understand you. Finding a partner is difficult, because in the eyes of others, you always look like a weirdo. A person without a stutter won’t understand how painful it is. I started to think that f...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
1 points

Mine only happens when im asking something usually, especially asking for something. If im about to stutter i have to reword the sentence n sound like an idiot lol dude it is the weirdest thing. Talki...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2025
2 points

I am 18M too. Started going on my first dates ever with a girl last year. Stuttering is no longer my limiting factor in dating. I advise you to do the usual stuff - get jacked, dress nice, think abou...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

I consider my stammering as a filter, if a girl is okay with this half of my work is done. But yeah you have to keep working on your things and it does includes working for hours and days with no res...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

As other said people who stutter have girlfriends. For some it will be deal breaker, for some no and you should accept that. What I also read it may be helpful to say you are stuttering. Before dating...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

I was 27 when I went on my first date. We’re still together 11 years later. I never really worried about it, I just lived my life, made friends, nurtured my interests. There’s no blueprint for happi...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

Hey! Wanted to say, my boyfriend has a stutter, and yeah, he has a gf who loves him a lot. Also, he gets asked out a lot, too! You don't have to feel insecure. Stuttering isn't the only trait you have...

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commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

I didn't have my first relationship till I was 23. Now I am married to someone else. Stuttering is painful for us but potential partners don't care anywhere near as much as we do. Projecting confid...

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