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postr/StutterJun 21, 2023
6 points

possible speech impediment or am i having anxiety over nothing?

possible speech impediment or am i having anxiety over nothing? heyyyy reddit fammm i work as a bagger at a grocery store and i always ask the customer “did you want bags?” or “you want bags today?” o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2023
2 points

And I did stutter and i told them mid interview that i don’t usually talk like this its just that I’m a bit nervous and they were okay...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2023
1 points

This happened to me the other day, and I've never had an issue with stuttering before. It could have to do with the fact that anxiety and excitement are very similar physiologically. JP Collins has so...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
2 points

I heard that IELTS is being zoned out soon. With that being said, I gave the TOEFL and it was indeed very difficult because you will have to say everything within 30 seconds or something, I remember ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
2 points

I did and I really thought I had messed it up due to my stuttering and nervousness but I got 7 bands in the speaking section so I guess it wasn’t that bad considering I wasn’t even expecting a 4 lol...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

oh trust me i had been stressing about it a lot but the fears went away with time, im sure he wont reject you just because of your stutter. and sure, tell him if u feel like it. if he is the right p...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

Yeah, good question. In 99% of my daily interactions, I don’t stutter anymore. In the rare cases I do, I can get past it pretty easily by just not beating myself up over the small blocks I have. When ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
2 points

My advice like most of the replies I have seen is to let them know as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the anxiety will build up. Is this someone you may want to take things further with and pos...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
5 points

You just have to tell them. If they react poorly they obviously aren't good enough for a serious relationship. I've disclosed mine within the first few days of talking to someone, unless we meet in p...

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Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
postr/StutterJun 17, 2023
30 points

How do you disclose your stutter to someone you’re dating?

How do you disclose your stutter to someone you’re dating? I’m talking to this guy I’ve met online but we also met in person couple of times ( not intentionally). It’s a long distance and we communic...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
4 points

Imposter syndrome? Why do you say you only should have gotten a C? Don't assume you know everything about the guy that didn't get picked for Lead lifeguard. Maybe you're doing well and getting reco...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
7 points

Till now I have given 2 times ielts and have scored 7 bands in each. I have been stammering since childhood. According to my experience, you should always communicate with the examiner about your stam...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

For real we are at a massive disadvantage in the dating world. especially if you have social anxiety as well (like me!!). its demotivating and depressing af...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

Nope. I guarantee that stuttering bothers us way more than it bothers them. Good luck!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

I'm sorry I was mean, I had an awful morning. Look man, you're being too hard on yourself. You can't expect to get every job you interviewed for. Keep trying don't give up. I used to have an insanely...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
3 points

Tough answer... You're setting yourself up to fail. You stutter. That's not something you can change in the short term. All you can do is know that you're going to stutter during the interview, and t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 16, 2023
4 points

Interview coming soon ! Need to not stutter, need advice

Interview coming soon ! Need to not stutter, need advice Nearly in all my interviews I stutter and the words are in my mind like I know what to say but it dosent come out of my mouth and I’m just stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterJun 16, 2023
6 points

Social intelligence

Social intelligence (TLDR at the bottom) I sometimes come across tips or information on how to have better conversations or be more charismatic/charming etc., but I feel like these tips or guides or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
3 points

Literally this. To me its something that people notice and care about because I notice and care about it but in all reality in my 24 years of living with this, no one gives a shit. The people that do,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
2 points

Of course not, what's the benefit? Wait and you might be happily surprised or withdraw and eliminate any chance of actually getting the job. I'm also hypervigilant of how people react to my stutter an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment