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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
0 points

Well you dont have to limit your expressions and you can say whatever you want for eg; if a person says " can i get a burger and a coke" and he start to stutter at the letter 'B' of burger so instead ...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

Had a date yesterday and got a kiss out of it cause I made her laugh even with my stutter. I hope you shine your light to the world and not let it define you. It definitely hasnt been easy but the rig...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

Where's the "It helped it" option?? ;) Seriously, when I was dating the women who is now my wife I said to her in one conversation that I have learnt to give myself permission to stutter. This resona...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

Just accepting I have a stutter and not being afraid to talk when I want or need to. Surprisingly pushing yourself talk more helps you build your confidence so you get less anxiety prior to speaking s...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

Stuttering has no connection with your tongue...it's just an illusion in your mind that you created by thinking yourself that i stammer.. all you have to do is changing the perspective of your mindset...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
4 points

When I stopped hating on myself and calling myself stupid all the time. I am so open about it now and tell people before I give presentations etc. I still stutter and sometimes have bad days but the w...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

You should be proud you got up there and did it! It’s hard for people to speak in front of others even without a stutter. Don’t be so hard on yourself, the more you put yourself down the more you will...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
2 points

Yes it’s normal to feel this way but you have to understand that you’ll always have a stammer but it’s only a small part of who you are. I own my own business and do presentations to clients every oth...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
5 points

If you have a stutter, why are you trying so hard to convince others you don’t? What good is it going to do living a lie and making it harder for yourself? Most of those people won’t care you stutter ...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
5 points

#1 acceptance [ as if there is no hope in a different reality ] #2 managing life one day at a time [as if it is the last 24 hours to live .. much helpful for me ] #3 I have a big interest in the sci...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
-1 points

Well you’ve came to the right place, everyone has experienced everything you have typed here.. including myself. I’m 29 years old now and have been through presentations in university as well.. & ...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
10 points

Dude nobody gives a shit that you stutter. I guarantee it. Be proud that you did the presentation. This was a win....

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
1 points

Don't embarrass urself tht i stammer ... Build a different personality and confidence by facing it to world ..tho u stammer try try try and try ..u will automatically adapt the new face of you.. final...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
4 points

It was a shocking revelation to me that a stutterer gets to be elected in the strongest position in the world and still hides their stutter. Same with King George VI if you’ve ever watched the King’s ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Well, gee! We totally agree again but I totally misread your comment! My apologies. It really shines a light on how strong the shame of blocks can be. You can achieve an internationally powerful p...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

No, but I think Biden thinks that. Many stutterers I’ve met would prefer they be seen as forgetting what they said or switch words around than being seen as a stutterer. I personally stutter unashamed...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
2 points

Just take it as it is. You can do nothing about it, breath and smile (from inside) And I hope these weren’t your friends, never do a presentation with a friend...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
4 points

I can understand that, but I would stray far away from any "self help" or anything that points out her insecurities. If you really want to get her a gift, just find something she truly likes. If you w...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Yes, she loves books, and self care items. So I thought I'd get one that aligns with boosting her confidence in that area....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
7 points

I know the feeling. I’ve been there. Be proud you actually got up there and did it. You prepared, you did the work and you followed through. Be kind to yourself!...

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