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postr/StutterJul 5, 2023
0 points

Having children with just the potential of them stuttering is disgusting.

Having children with just the potential of them stuttering is disgusting. This is the main reason why I'm not having kids and am avoiding intercourse until I get a vasectomy. Because stuttering isn't ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
3 points

🙄only do this if you look pretty. Cuz people might get grossed out from you trying to "relate" to them....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

everybody stutters sometimes but for us its a IMPEDIMENT they wont understand what it feels like to knowing what your gonna say and you couldnt say it. Having a stutter is not fun and its hard to liv...

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Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
21 points

“omg you have a stutter!! i stutter too sometimes” i know they’re only trying to empathise but it really makes me feel like they don’t understand that i have an IMPEDIMENT. everyone stutters sometimes...

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Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
5 points

Tired makes me worse as well. For example at the dentist, where I am extremely uncomfortable at to begin with. After being tortured\* in that chair for 30 minutes I am physically and mentally exhauste...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterJul 5, 2023
6 points

Tired asf so increase in stuttering

Tired asf so increase in stuttering Hello, I'm 15M and I'm just on a holiday in Greece rn and I had to wake up early the last 2 days and before I went to sleep at like 7am and stuff just because I wan...

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Energy & Biological RhythmsAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
11 points

Wow. Great question. I wonder the same question about some time ago. My conclusion is this: Even if I am mute, **I will still be a stutter**. ÂżWhy? Because I will still have a stutter mentality. St...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
3 points

If I understood correctly, when people ask you for something you are more fluent and relaxed because it seems that they are asking for your time. When happens the other way around you get block, stuck...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 4, 2023
18 points

Stutters who have kids- do they stutter?

Stutters who have kids- do they stutter? I’m wondering how many of you who stutter have kids, and if they stutter too. My husband wants to have kids, but I have such a fear that my child will have a s...

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Family Support & ConflictSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2023
19 points

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips?

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips? I just absolutely HATE that I can't say what I want to others and I feel like half ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
3 points

I can barely speak in front of my father. We barely talked during my childhood and he was very strict and "heavy" man. I am adopted and I think he never accepted me entirly, so I was always afraid to ...

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commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
13 points

It’s especially embarrassing on work calls with 10-12 attendees with no videos. Once I was trying to introduce myself and of course, I had a block. Someone asked whether my mic is working (?). It was ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 3, 2023
4 points

Tips/advice for the NSA conference?

Tips/advice for the NSA conference? I am going to the conference this year for the first time, and I am wondering if anyone has any advice on how to make the most of it and not be nervous. For context...

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Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
4 points

Yes. Definitely. I started stuttering again really badly. Explaining it to my foreign relatives is impossible. They say “Is there something wrong with you?” condescendingly and when I don’t speak it’s...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
2 points

Me too. And I honestly think that this is the reason that my stutter and mental health is as bad as it is. I’m in my early 20s and suffer from social anxiety and depression, perhaps even other stuff (...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
1 points

Thank you, did you have any blocks when you stuttered ? I stutter on words that have meaning because when I tell them it makes me vulnerable for them to know who I am. I dokt know if a speech therapis...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPropositionality & WeightVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
2 points

Thank you I have heard of repressed emotions causes different parts of your body to feel tense for me my throat gets tense and closes up when I start talking to people that are high valued. I don’t st...

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Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
5 points

Absolutely this. I find a lot of stutters are worried about never meeting anybody, I don't think it's a stuttering problem as such though, I think a lot of people in general worry about this especial...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
15 points

I’ve noticed that I stutter in front of my family, especially parents, a lot more than in front of other people or even strangers. I’ve this sort of anxiety of speaking since I was little because of t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2023
3 points

I didn’t date until I was 20 (currently 22) and have been dating a girl for almost a year now. She is patient with my stutter and doesn’t care about it neither does her family. At first I thought she ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment