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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
4 points

I m 22 M and never had a sexual relationship, I tried many times but I failed. I have a moderate stutter but I m hopless. Espacially, I feel lately the same pressure cause almost all my friend have a ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
2 points

Stuttering is the results / outcomes (secondary ) and the real process (primary) is our thought and perception surrounding our speech and ourself and also its became an habit pattern to think and sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological+1 more
postr/StutterJul 8, 2023
14 points

Do you think fight or fight response play a critical role in stuttering?

Do you think fight or fight response play a critical role in stuttering? As we all experienced, when we have a block, we feel nervous and tension in our chest, right? In my opinion, our brain treats ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterJul 8, 2023
12 points

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post TW (suicide): hey all, hope you are all doing well. I don’t want to spread any negativity, but I have no other place to vent. For some reason, over the last couple of d...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

Totally opposite for me, I'm 60 and still totally embarrassed about my stammer, I'm always full of dread and anxiety, which is why I guess as I've got older if anything it's got worse.. as you say...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
5 points

I am 37 M, I stutter moderately to low but deal with high daily anxiety ahead of meetings and work stuff. Net net, i have managed my life this way and i guess you have too. I know many female stutters...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
5 points

18M here. First things first, the view that at 22 you shouldn't be a virgin is completely untrue. I've been in a relationship before and most of the obstacles from stuttering actually come from the ...

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Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 7, 2023
12 points

Checking out of socializing.

Checking out of socializing. Yep as of today I officially quit trying to socialize and find friends. I will never accept myself for who I am so I'm done torturing myself. I discovered that my hatred f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

also f22. im so sorry youre feeling pressured into something you don’t want to do. even if you were ace or lesbian or something other then attracted to men, that’s none of their business to be putti...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
9 points

I’m 18 and I have a severe stutter my whole life. I never actually had a gf before because I don’t think anyone can accept that I have trouble communicating I feel they would get annoyed after awhile ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
6 points

I can understand ! I mean tbh I can’t comment on what your sister doing ! She’s living her life ! May be that’s what she wants or she knows what she’s doing.. Your parents are a bit conservative so ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 7, 2023
35 points

Pressure and Sex

Pressure and Sex Alright, 22F here, moderate stutter. I'm a virgin, and to be honest it never really bothered me until now. I've never done anything with a guy, but I think I was also unlucky because...

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Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

I also think it’s a psychological problem with me as well. Have you looked into this? Any insights? I feel like my stuttering is getting worse it sucks...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 7, 2023
8 points

How to I stop thinking so much about how i speake?

How to I stop thinking so much about how i speake? I stutter since i can remember, but only in the last cuple of years I became very self concious about how I speek. I think that not only this worsen ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

My personality is good if I know I'm talking to a mature person. But I have horrible social anxiety from being publicly laughed at and horribly embarrased countless times. Stuttering has gave me inten...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

For me it's because when I'm alone or I read I don't think about what others think of me or my stutter, when talking to my friends I mostly talk fluently but to strangers and partially my parents I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I have a moderate stutter, minor with my friends but I have a lot of social anxiety, I'm scared to ask things, order, introduce myself,...But I wouldn't say I have a weak personality, I'm more compass...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

I work at a small semi-factory and one day a military guy came to us to buy something , at that time I was busy with work but I went to see what my partners were doing and I saw that guy and I felt so...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

You bring up an interesting point! I agree completely. Perhaps in high school we tend to be more hyperactive, and as we reach our 30s or 40s, we generally diminish this hyperactivity component and we ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
6 points

Yes. I have very bad social anxiety and not much to talk about. I’m just met my relatives I haven’t seen in 17 years. They think I’m weak because I stutter and get treated less than/ differently. Als...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size