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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2021
2 points

I believe there are a couple of types of stammering, but not very many. The most common is developmental stammering which appears in childhood. That doesn't mean that you need to have had obvious dysf...

Parent & CaregiverIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Early Concern & OnsetIdentity & Self-PerceptionBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
postr/StutterSep 12, 2021
50 points

Anyone else feel weird listening to other people stutter?

Anyone else feel weird listening to other people stutter? I’ve been taking taking this storytelling course online and I can tell the instructor has a very mild stutter than I’m assuming most people wo...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
3 points

I'm 36 and I dealt with this when I was in school. What was terribly intimidating as a young man is now a non-issue as an adult. I regularly brief Colonels and other high ranking officers and I still ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterSep 11, 2021
7 points

What even is stammering anyway?

What even is stammering anyway? Hi all, I know it's a bit long but please bear with me. I have never really voiced these questions before, especially not to other stammerers. I wasn't sure how to phr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
1 points

I have a friend that said that growing up, he had a friend that stuttered. My friend said that he always thought stuttering was cool, so he would fake a stutter. And he would fake a lisp because he th...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterSep 11, 2021
20 points

How do you feel when people call your stutter “cute”?

How do you feel when people call your stutter “cute”? I mention that I have a stutter in my dating app profiles. Someone messaged me saying “I think stutters are cute” or something along those lines. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
3 points

I have anxiety anyway so developing a mindset around stuttering that wasn't based on shame made a huge difference for me. I actually think of this r/stutter as a support group in a way. For most p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
8 points

Here’s how I see it. And I consider myself a rather confident stutterer. It’s a neurological condition I can only control to a point. I try and use fluency techniques, but I’m going to stutter, and th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
4 points

Don’t let it hold you back. It’ll only keep you from doing interesting stuff and really growing and enjoying life. I’ve got a moderate to severe stutter depending on the day. I used to think I could n...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
6 points

Wowww, thank you for providing this real eye opener. When you say stutters have a completely different cognitive experience to non-stutters, how does the experience for a person who has gone through ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainFluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
5 points

You are the man Tom! I like how you mentioned stuttering as a complex of a series of cognitive deficits. Most of us stutterers like myself also have adhd, ocd, and “handwriting jerks/blocks”. But coul...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
6 points

In my personal approach to '*speach confidence'* is letting myself stutter certainly a factor.I believe that this confidence you are looking for is a combination of many things. This is how I see i...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
postr/StutterSep 9, 2021
28 points

BE confident!! Your stutter DOES NOT define who you are! Get outside of your comfort zone and DO IT!

BE confident!! Your stutter DOES NOT define who you are! Get outside of your comfort zone and DO IT! ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2021
18 points

*Continuation:* # A completely different cognitive experience Reading these studies changed the way I understand stuttering. Before I learned about the neurological studies surrounding stuttering, I...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2021
5 points

I’m 23F the only one in the family who has a stutter. It’s mild I’d say I’ve always stuttered here and there but for many years I was actually fine! Senior year I moved to a different school and becam...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 9, 2021
5 points

Is there a way I can change the way I stutter?

Is there a way I can change the way I stutter? So when I feel a block I normally don’t stutter like how most people do. I either pause, say uhm, or keep repeating the word (not syllable) and then paus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2021
1 points

Thank you! I’m 17 so I’m still in that “needing to grow a pair phase” which I’m slowly developing. If I could be confident with this stutter I’d be set for my life tho...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterSep 8, 2021
3 points

I'm a stuttering veteran but after the graduation from junior school I recovered a lot from it.

I'm a stuttering veteran but after the graduation from junior school I recovered a lot from it. I'm hoping my experience demonstrations can get someone some clues about what stutter is and how to reco...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsCycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2021
3 points

Don't have any advice but just wanted to say that I feel like I could've written this. So much of "personality" is based on how well you can verbally express your thoughts and it becomes easy to lose ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 6, 2021
13 points

Quote

Quote This guy I chatted with earlier texted me : You might be interested in a quotation by a non-stutterer from a letter written many years ago by Thomas Carlyle, the historian, to Ralph Waldo Emer...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception