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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
8 points

I always tell people if I could have 10 million dollars or speak perfectly, I would choose the fluent speech....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
5 points

Hey man some of us are not holding good cards in life. I wish I had straight teeth and was model pretty but I know those are miniscule wishes compared to trying to overcome a speech disability. There ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

Never apologize for yourself. If you stutter they will notice without you have to tell them. No one comes up to you and apologizes for being overweight, or missing a limb, or having any other thing th...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

So what if they look at you weirdly mate, it's not the end of the world. It's the fact that you had the balls to go up to someone knowing damn well you're gonna stutter your ass off. Which is why i ha...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

As a guy who stutters don’t use online apps. I have a mild stutter but can get pretty bad when nervous but I just approach girls in the shops and bars. You’ll be surprised no one cares about the stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

Most definitely!! If i could go back I would redo those dates in an instant lol. I will always let ppl know beforehand now! but you gotta look back and learn and honestly laugh. If i could offer any t...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PridePersonal Stories
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Don't ever feel bad about it; at the end and of the day it is outside of our control. I understand what you mean, when a block slows down the flow of the conversation. Sometimes people do tend to swi...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Like I mentioned in my reply to the other commenter, perhaps us males are culturally ingrained to appear stiff and strong, which makes matters worse for the less fluent populace, who probably do not h...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

Thanks man. I actually got the idea of speaking softly through my experience of singing. My voice is not loud, and the microphones at my place of worship aren't that good. So for some time, I tried ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

I never mentioned it before hand, because it didn’t define me as a person and i didn’t wanted to put myself out there as a victim. Carry your stammer with confidence, or even make a joke about it. “ E...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

I hear that you're really frustrated maybe even angry about your stutter. That's a really tough place to be in. I hear that you want to just be able to speak fluently all the time and that if you coul...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I talk about it often. With people on the phone when I’m having a hard day, when I interview, def before I give presentations. I used to try to hide it and then just got to a point where I realized I ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

There are many many stutterers that beat it. Blockers, repeaters, etc. Find their community and find your answers. Avoid anyone who preaches that it can’t beat....

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I've accepted that this isn't going away by itself and the only way to really help it, is to help myself. I've found that the more I'm up front and honest about it, the less of a problem it is. I've ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Own your stutter does NOT mean “be okay with blocking” It means “letting people hear some repetitions IS the way to significant reduce blocking”...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I don't see it as necessarily apologising personally. I see it as confidently acknowledging the stammer, and doing what's needed to make the conversation continue. It's just works for me, it's far b...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
9 points

I understand where you're coming from. Back when i used to lurk on this subreddit and saw comments like "Accept your stutter" or "you can have your stutter ruin your life if you let it" and honestly t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
6 points

At least it’s good to know someone else feels the same way… People just say be yourself, don’t care what others think. It’s just so hard because I don’t want to stutter and embarrass myself. Other peo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
4 points

Self acceptance isn’t bullshit, sorry you feel that way. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to willpower the stutter away...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
1 points

Practice and work, nothing happens on its own. Figure out the words and sounds that trigger you. Then.. in my case, learned other words or sounds to use instead, back up a couple words and try again, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution