I understand where you're coming from. Back when i used to lurk on this subreddit and saw comments like "Accept your stutter" or "you can have your stutter ruin your life if you let it" and honestly thought it was bs but at some point I realized they were right. These are the cards we've been given so why do we make our lives a lot more difficult by letting these inconveniences get the best of us, you know? I've also realized that not many people care if you stutter, especially if they're a stranger because they'll just end up forgetting about it an hour later haha but enough with the cheesy talk lol don't let this shit get you down man, it's easier said than done, i know, but hopefully one day you get there