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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
4 points

I wasted over 15 years of my life hiding from everything because I couldn’t talk. I was sick of being looked at like I was mentally challenged. Jobs wouldn’t hire me. I’m 40 years old and I think I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
3 points

It bothers me because an extension of that idea is that people that aren’t relaxed tend to be lower in the social ranks. However I have found that taking a deep breath and being relaxed does help wi...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
1 points

I rolled my eyes so hard during a NSA meeting where speakers called stuttering a "gift" and a "blessing". To me, it's a complete nightmare...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
1 points

I’m still figuring it out myself, but i’ve managed it better as i’ve gotten older. I just accept it and think to myself that I won’t let something that’s really out of my control hold me back and I’ll...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
3 points

Well welcome to the club. Imagine if you were a short man, a minority, a woman, disabled, or any other perceived disadvantaged class. You described some of the things that others experience too except...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
7 points

I feel bad quoting Kanye these past couple years but yeah, "Everything im not made me everything I am" is just too perfect of an explanation regarding stuttering/anxiety...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
9 points

This was very useful. You took the words right out of my head. I use to feel the same but as I got older, I start to see the strength in my ability not to speak fluently....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
30 points

I often feel this way on the inside, when I am by myself. Maybe my advice will be "cringe" or not very useful. Actually, the thing that helps me to not feel like I lost something is to take that feeli...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
1 points

Same happened to me! I stopped using my tricks and it started returning. But isn’t it good to know we now have the tools?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
2 points

Hey man!! Sorry for the late reply. Thank you a lot for this amazing advice. I have actually been voluntarily stuttering for a while now, I would say 5 months or so, and it has done absolute wonders t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
1 points

Someone with a stutter just want some kind of “normal” fluency. Never chasing the perfection, of course....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

I went to speech therapy twice as a kid and once as an adult. I was almost totally fluent while in the room, which felt amazing! There was a Subway next to the office and I'd walk over to get a sand...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
12 points

Personally I think viewing yourself as "outclassed" is the bigger problem. Accepting yourself goes a long way to being happier and less stressful. Which in turn can calm down the stuttering in some pe...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

I think it’s true that our attitude as well as focusing on stuttering can influence our tone and intonation, etc. to not be as playful and lighthearted. You just have to relax and not be as hard on yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

I felt the same way for years. I hated my stutter and myself when I stuttered. Even though all the fluent people said "it's OK, its just the way you talk, take your time, my relative had a stutter et...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 22, 2022
9 points

Starting Youtube with a stutter

Starting Youtube with a stutter Hey everyone, hope you are doing well. I am a 23 yr old with a stutter and have been thinking of starting Youtube. most of the content on Youtube on stuttering that i h...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
5 points

Suttering is a blessing in disguise. Trust me..i know exactly what you are going through. But the more you try to fight and "hate" it, the more it perpetuates and backfires on you. What i came to real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

i feel this way sometimes. self-acceptance is something we should all actively work on. easier said than done, i know - but i don't know, something like thinking a bad thought about yourself and repl...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

I used to feel this way too, I’d call myself stupid in my head constantly. When I stopped doing that and started to accept myself and f the people that were jerks my stutter got better, didn’t go away...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

Its just a momentary feeling now. I dont dwell on it anymore. Sometimes I compensate for it by acting weird afterwards loll. Hard to describe but im sure other pws will understand...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride