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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
2 points

No I stutter when I’m expected to speak. That’s why I HATE icebreakers or having to introduce myself for a group of people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

No, stutter more when I am expecting to speak cause I dwell on my stutter which makes me more nervous....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

For me personally it’s always when I’m expected to know the answer! Like my name etc. where as if I’m rambling nonsense it just flows...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
1 points

I realize this comment is two years old at this point but.. this is just something I’ve thought of. Maybe people who are slightly more intelligent exhibit stuttering because they are likely to use the...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
2 points

I find that I stutter when someone stares intently at me waiting for a response. A while back I started thinking about what I'm going to say instead of just blurting something out, and some people I g...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
2 points

I always dreaded those ‘going around the room and tell everyone your name and something else’ and I would always either make up an excuse to get my ass outta there…. Or say ‘I forgot’ as well and just...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
20 points

I stutter more when I dwell on an upcoming conversation. Like this weekend I have a meeting with people I haven’t talked to in years. I am dreading it and thinking of all the ways I am going to get st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
1 points

Hi! Trust me you are not alone…I actually have the same problem except I just have a higher pitch voice. I’m usually a very cheerful, upbeat person but everytime I have conversations with people I no...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 18, 2023
31 points

Do you stutter more when you weren't expecting to speak?

Do you stutter more when you weren't expecting to speak? I find that if I didn't think I'd need to talk to someone or reply to a conversation or question, I stammer alot more than if I know I'm going ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 18, 2023
11 points

Mentioning your stuttering to co-workers

Mentioning your stuttering to co-workers Hi all, First post here. I have a question regarding stuttering and having to do professional presentations. My co-workers think it would be a good idea if I'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
2 points

Brudda that kinda opened my eyes. I forget all about confidence when I'm trying to flirt. But when I'm talking to someone I know I don't even think twice about my stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
3 points

I don't like talking to people about my stutter because people think that I'm some kind of disabled or show some unnecessary sympathy which i don't want . Once an employer said to me when i revealed ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
3 points

First of all, thank you for sharing your feelings and experiences. It takes courage to open up about such personal struggles. I can understand how challenging it must be to navigate life with your s...

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postr/StutterJul 17, 2023
7 points

Feeling this sense of numbness...like my life is just slipping out of my hands..

Feeling this sense of numbness...like my life is just slipping out of my hands.. **Intro** I am a 21 year old guy who stutters. I moved abroad in order to pursue a Bachelor's degree (Degree in Commun...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
1 points

There's nothing worse for your self confidence as stuttering I don't think, it really knocks you back knowing you've made a complete fool of yourself...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 17, 2023
6 points

Is it possible to have confidence as someone who stutters?

Is it possible to have confidence as someone who stutters? I’ve stuttered off and on my whole life and I noticed that when I have conversations during a period when I’m not stuttering they go smoothly...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
5 points

Send an advance email letting them know that you stutter. Then remind them at the beginning of the interview. This will help to relax you a bit, knowing that they know to expect it -...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
3 points

Thanks, I always dreaded being outed by my stuttering since there were times when listeners had no The idea I stuttered until it reared its ugly head. The look of pity and horror on the listener’s fac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 17, 2023
5 points

Improving my stutter during interview

Improving my stutter during interview Are there any tips, exercises anything which can help reduce my stutter I get very nervous when im put on stop and i have to talk my stuttering became worse to ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
2 points

Back in boarding school, one of the junior most class boys had to read the news in the morning assembly. It was my second turn of the year (first time went great). Went up to the rostrum and couldn't ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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