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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
5 points

Well said, it isn't easy but there are many things so much worse. Neither of my parents nor siblings stutter but I do. Who the hell knows? I'm fine with not knowing the cause and just focus on being h...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

I'm a stutterer and parent of a now 21yo child with no stutter. As others suggest, don't let your speech dictate your life decisions. This truly does not matter, just love them and spend time with you...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
3 points

Does the cashier at Starbucks determine your life? Pick your battles man. Obviously some peoples opinions matter but not everybodies. How you let people treat you reflects on you. I haven’t trained ...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

I’m not expecting anyone to be a monk, but everyone who stutters has two options… they can either accept they do it, or deny that they have an inescapable thing they do...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

Confidence is being confident in yourself that you dont give a fuck about what anyone thinks. Confidence is more than just the words you speak. Its everything, body language, how confident you are abo...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

“No core reason to be confident.” You’ve decided for yourself that there is no reason for someone with a stutter to be confident. Is that your message to everyone on this sub? I stutter and I live m...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

You are right. People view us as less than automatically. I don't know why your being down voted for being honest. I think what some are saying about confidence could be worded better as acceptance....

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

I’m glad it stuck to you. You’re not just your stutter, you’re so much more. And if anyone can’t look past that, then they aren’t worth your time....

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

How about we relate it to a different disability. What if every time you looked at someones blown off leg in a wheelchair they got weird about it. Or they got weird about you asking what being blind i...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
3 points

I think "confidence" has been assigned to the wrong thing here. Confidence in a tool does not help when your tool (your mouth) is unreliable, you're right, but people who talk about "having confidence...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
3 points

I agree, seen a lot of negative posts recently, when I was young I was extremely negative about my stutter, but as others have said. You need to accept it, and try to not let it dictate your life!...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

Same!! I’m already stuttering so why not try to make the best out of it? The only thing I’m worried about is my future kids though but I realized that if that happens, I have the tools I need to help ...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

Thanks for the great advice and I'll deffenitly remember it and I'll try to not let my stutter make me....

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
2 points

This is what I do with phone calls. I practice what I want to say, and then I speak slowly when it is actually time. I still have problems speaking to strangers (eg asking something in a store), but I...

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postr/StutterNov 29, 2022
8 points

You are not your stutter *positive post*

You are not your stutter *positive post* It’s easy to get stuck in a spiral of hopelessness because of your stutter or blocks. It can feel lonely and frustrating. But believe me when I say that accep...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
2 points

Hard agree on the first part. I’ve been stuttering for 18 years and’s I can say that every single day when you’re reminded that you stutter only leads to an increase in gap of your self esteem and how...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
1 points

Definitely! Everybody has different experiences when it comes to that kind of stuff. The stories you hear about people going crazy and killing themselves is a very very minuscule amount of people in t...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
6 points

I totally get the first one about talking to them like you don’t respect them, seems kind of mean to say it like that but that is essentially what I do to. For me it’s having confidence that helps wit...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
3 points

I can feel it bro I've been through all of it i used to cry every night for about 2-3 years till 11th grade. Little did I know you just have to accept it you don't have an option. I recently started r...

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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
3 points

You just need to get used to it. Don’t blame or be angry with yourself because of your stutter. It doesn’t help. I had the same troubles when I was in school and I rejected all types of communication...

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