How about we relate it to a different disability. What if every time you looked at someones blown off leg in a wheelchair they got weird about it. Or they got weird about you asking what being blind is like. Or you dont know how to properly sign language if theyre deaf? If they got weird about wouldnt you? Or at least feel awkward. If they made a joke about about their leg would you feel alot more at ease. Same thing for us with stuttering. People respond to confidence and being comfortable in your skin. Stutter or no stutter.