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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

I will go to college this year i am also afraid like again i have to start from zero ,tell my name to everyone and stuff ,and i stutter in that ,its tough to pronounce, i want every one know my name ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
2 points

Never tried any specific techniques. Just went face-first into the frightening world of speaking in front of strangers. Thinking too much just makes it worse for me. So I wouldn't think much either....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
1 points

Yes I also don't stutter when alone.. so that makes me believe it is all in my head. I always have this fear that someone will hear me stutter. So afraid to be embarrassed. Even when walking outside i...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
1 points

I agree. I talk fluently sometimes with others but starting makes things harder. If I need to ask some questions to someone at that time it becomes harder for me. When I speak long sentences I speak f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
11 points

If I'm by myself, I never stutter. If I have even the slightest expectation that somebody might hear me, like recording a voicemail, I'll stutter again. It really is that expectation we're going to st...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
5 points

The emotional baggage and anxiety you can save yourself by accepting your stutter is monumental. And it’s a cruel cycle, the more anxious you are about stuttering the more you stutter and the more anx...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 7, 2023
8 points

Does your stutter become better when no one can hear you? I'm very anxious of someone hearing me talk, especially my family and i'm wondering if other people on here have or had that too and maybe got some advice for how to start to overcome this?

Does your stutter become better when no one can hear you? I'm very anxious of someone hearing me talk, especially my family and i'm wondering if other people on here have or had that too and maybe got...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

This is true because it often works for me. I've also been told I speak very well but I genuinely don't believe it sometimes, and it throws me back into that crippled metal state that effects my speec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
7 points

I stuttered on every other line. I remember I once got stuck mid-sentence while reading for the class on the word fridge and I was just saying " F FF FFF", So basically yeah I got bullied pretty bad....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
2 points

I feel your pain man. I lost many speaking opportunities that would have pushed me to limelight because of my fear of stuttering. But life happens. Be confident, seek therapy. There may be light at th...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
7 points

Do you have the resources to get speech therapy? I was always self conscious about my speech until I got speech therapy that focused on being OK with my stutter. It also gave me some tools to deal wi...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking TherapyTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
2 points

Yes, all those twisted thoughts with anxiety, fear, shame, frustration, impotence, insecurity and sadness behind. That inner hell... What I do is distort the twisted thoughts. Like removing all posib...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
4 points

I've had full-body Alopecia ever since I was 2 years old, and I have a stress-induced block stutter. I've felt ugly and weird my whole life. Honestly, though, outside of dating, my stutter is accepted...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
21 points

Almost every time, I know most people probably don’t mean to be “bad mannered” for lack of a better word, but a lot of people have never met someone who stutters so they usually don’t know how to reac...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

yes... i am honestly pretty scared of the coming school year, having to introduce myself to the new teachers in front of the class :/ my name starts with a "ca" and i have a blockage type of stutter w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

One thing that helps me a lot when speaking to strangers especially in foreign countries, is the thought that you are probably never going to see that person again....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 4, 2023
10 points

Little vent sesh

Little vent sesh I have to do phones/customer service at my job an hour or two a day and it's not the whole day so usually I can get by alright, but damn this week really sucked. I was "um"-ing all ov...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
2 points

You already have many answers but I love dropping my experiences here as well. I really appreciate you asking! 1. There isn't a set reason or cause for stuttering. Many young children experience su...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
1 points

It gives your mind leverage to shame you for being “bad”. We are often more concerned with what our own mind is going to do with an insult from another because of what our own mind is going to do with...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2023
15 points

I'm 25 and I've been in two serious relationships. Had my first love at 15 (lasted 1 and a half years) and my second love at 20 (lasted almost 4 years). What I learned is that the more I'm afraid of s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more