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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
3 points

It seems like you actually care and support this person and that's good. As long as that comes across you should be fine. And I see in a different your motivation seems to be a promotion and you wan...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
3 points

This is all great insight. Thank you. I definitely don't want to single him out, and I'm not really looking to help him personally try to "fix" it. Maybe a better way of phrasing it is, what should I ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener ReactionsIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 11, 2022
18 points

Observation i made

Observation i made A few weeks ago I was FaceTiming my Internet friend every single day. And not once did I stutter. I was myself. When I talk to my family I kinda stutter When I talk to my friends...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Experiential AssociationIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2022
1 points

Yea, self-esteem is the key factor. If we have self-esteem, we feel like we have the right to be ourself, and feel good about being ourself. I think any self-growth tips or programs generally will hel...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationMindset shift
postr/StutterMar 9, 2022
19 points

Hi new here

Hi new here Definitely not new to stuttering been having It all of my life. Im 37 and it's not as bad now but I definitely still suffer from it. I just want to die everytime I do it, like just crawl u...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
5 points

Because I’m smart, but I don’t sound like it. I want to sound like my true self so people can know the real me and give me credit for it....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
26 points

So sorry you feel that way. It may not feel it, but this challenge has given you more insights and depth of thought that most don’t understand, you are special. Much love...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2022
6 points

I research stuttering for one of my classes, and here’s what my studies have found People tend to grow out of stuttering at around their own respected teenage years, and even then so you slowly begin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMar 6, 2022
19 points

Hope one day I can get over this feeling

Hope one day I can get over this feeling I feel inferior to people who can speak normally and I hate that I can't get over that feeling. Hopefully it'll disappear with time....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
2 points

While that can be true, I personally feel you give your stutter so much importance that it blinds your personality. Regardless of how much weight the stutter has, your personality will always outweigh...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
5 points

Stuttering goes away with time. Anger and hatred and a desire to get rid of the stutter will only make you feel terrible. The sad truth is that the stutter won't go away overnight and will take time. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
19 points

I don’t want to be like this.

I don’t want to be like this. I started university this year, and apart from the fact that I’m lazy af and I barely do any homework, my stutter is isolating me more and more, I seem stupid because I c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
2 points

The best thing you can do is to work on your self-confidence and self-esteem. You can try multiple things, cognitive behavioral therapy, hypnotherapy, self-affirmations, etc. You will become more at...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
17 points

Stuttering and my confidence.

Stuttering and my confidence. I am a 24 year old man from the Netherlands and have been stuttering for as long as I can remember, some periods more than others. I went to a doctor about it when I was...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
1 points

Not sure about its neurogenic or psychogenic(some experienced person in this field can tell us). If somehow we can able to remove those thoughts then likely we stutter less on those words. For that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
1 points

Thank you! Me too, I have a mindset and anxiety to stutter on these words. I'm curious. If we have never experienced involuntary stutters, does that actually mean that your stutter (and my stutter) is...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
2 points

Thank you! Me too. I'm curious. If we have never experienced involuntary stutters, does that actually mean that your stutter (and my stutter) is not neurological? (there are neurogenic and psychogenic...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
1 points

I guess what confuses me is responses like 2c and i. I, Myself, always stutter. So of course I always try to speak fluently and not purposely stutter depending on the situation so I don't understand "...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
1 points

I must admit I have often yearned to be understood by others in my circle in terms of the impact stammering has had on my life and the lived experience of stammering…...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
8 points

Listen to Tim Mackesey’s podcast. FYI - Joe Biden has had different degrees of stutter since childhood....

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