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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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100% agree with u/Muttly2001 and u/ShutupPussy Commit to doing it. Shut down the negative thoughts and anxiety. Refusing to speak is the worst choice....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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How do I convince my group to do the speaking for me in a group presentation

How do I convince my group to do the speaking for me in a group presentation I need some vaild reasons, as just me stuttering isn’t enough. I did do most of the work for the group which gives me a upp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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Just be confident. Everyone has flaws. If you're going with that mindset they will sniff it out and you'll be undatable lol...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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If a girl rejects you because of stuttering trust me that’s the tip of the iceberg and you dodged a bullet....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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Not something I recommend for everyday use, but look into beta-blockers ... it will calm you down in high pressure situations Also, regularly do judgement/rejection challenges (exposure therapy). Goo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2023
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Stuttering may occur to people who do not have a family history. Some people who stutter are not "born with it" and there isn't much to suggest a brain or mental defect causes this. I'm not a scient...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Yeah I did not realize how many people feel this way when someone stutters but have def met people who just don't like me right off. Maybe it's this....

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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I’m lucky bc I’m attractive. But I find most girls don’t really care. Girls are more compassionate about that type of thing and if you’re honest w then they seem to look past it. I think being funny h...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Currently going through this. Well not the dropping out of college part lol. I have a presentation tomorrow, which is optional, but it’s 5 points off if we don’t do it. I’m planning on doing it. It on...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Just be up front about it and you'll be surprised how much understanding you actually get. I find that when I explain what happening, when it happens it creates a sense of vunerablity and a good ice b...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Some women will be bothered, like some women are bothered with bald men, or short men, or any other physical trait that you can think of. We men also have physical preferences. That's human nature. T...

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Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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I feel like they usually seem to be well intentioned when they say it but it's like, why even say it at all? In other contexts it would be a weird response. "I have a birth mark on my leg." "I didn't ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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School is like the only thing keeping me going and making me feel normal right now lol Yes presentations are hard but my classmates are used to me stuttering by now, so after a certain point nobody ca...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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You don't know that your fluency will always be this bad. It may be what you believe, but that doesn't make it true Since you didn't specify speech therapy I'm going to assume that you're meeting wi...

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Hope & MotivationOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Fear of stuttering (or another negative emotion) is at work here. Fear "predicts" the future and tells your brain that you are going to stutter in these situations. When this happens, it is very di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

No, why would I? I just ask for extra time during presentations. My parents forced me to live my life mostly just as someone who doesn't have a speech impediment, and I did lots of presentations at hi...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Dont look like a sad and depressed person who hate his stutter. Your eyes should smile, be nice and they will percieve you as a strong person....

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Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Interview help.

Interview help. I got rejected every interview I attended. They think Iam nervous. But when I say my problem to them then they rejects saying my communication skills are not good.How you guys handle t...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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I opted out and went with private tuitions for the international degree of ACCA. Otherwise college & uni would have been hell. Mind you, I had a sever stutter that had changed into a mild one due ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I speak Urdu (Pakistan) as well as English. I consider myself to be an "English" speaker and Urdu as my second tongue. I often stutter when talking in Urdu. So I have a good English vocabulary and whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment