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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

If I’m really stuck I’ll start describing the thing I’m trying to say to either get the other person to say it or buy myself enough time so that I feel unblocked. Weird but works for me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

I have a loads of experience in that but only during my school times, now i have improved very much, all that insults really motivated me to become better and have a better fluency while I communicate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

Well, at least you found out that this girl wouldn't accept you with flaws. If I were you, I'd wonder why after month since 'growing distance' she got another one. But anyway, stuttering is definetely...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

this can be a slippery slope. Filler words can work in the beginning, but a lot of times, our brain adapts and they dont work.l as well. And your left with a secondary behavior that complicates your...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

I find it hard to do that bc the topic of stuttering (and the word itself) is usually a trigger for stuttering. Jokes really require good timing and delivery, and botching it with a stutter really def...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

It's all too easy to rush through things, I'm guilty of this myself. I find the sounds I'm OK with and speak as fast as I can after that. But this is wrong and I know it. Easy onset, slow things down...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
1 points

There's no direct solution, try adding words you don't stutter with before words you stutter with. For example "Ummm Kashmir ?"....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterSep 17, 2023
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Making a joke or addressing stuttering

Making a joke or addressing stuttering Has anyone ever successfully joked about their stuttering when speaking to someone? Or maybe just addressing it during conversation? My speech therapist was sayi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
1 points

I relate to this post hard. I always wonder what my life would be like if I didn’t have this stupid stutter. About a year ago I became really close with my dream girl to the point where we were overtl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
1 points

A few thoughts... What steps are you taking to pursue fluency? It's likely not going to happen on its own. It's going to take effort. When I was finally ready to become fluent I went back to speech t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
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Yep, this just bout sums up my life, it's hard not to be negative when you have a stutter, it more or less affects your life every single day,.. I've gone through life never having a proper conve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
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Been there brotha. Still have the issue where it’s hard to add my 2 cents in a group conversation, especially a fast paced one. Cuz people would talk over me when I stutter. I either say it louder, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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Yeah I know that calls were obviously answered by humans but I’m sure there were people who thought “what’s this strange voice coming from the phone”. I wouldn’t say it’s an avoidance trick though. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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>When telephones started to become a household thing, did people used to think they were just talking to a computer/robot? No. Before voicemail and answering machines, all calls were answered by a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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How are you doing now?, does ur stutter affect you when speaking in a public setting like presenting or even introducing yourself in a group setting Ive had people say they thought i was special need...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
1 points

i have alot of videos of me stuttering when recording for my YouTube channel and i just edit it out...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
1 points

I told my boyfriend on our second date that I stutter. He was surprised, because he hadn’t picked up on it. But at some point I have had major blocks and because he was then aware of my stutter, he di...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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Yes I do and it still doesn’t help me, but who knows it might help you, don’t hurt to try you know?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
1 points

yea I’ve read today for 30 minutes out loud and I’m fluent clear as day esp with enourmous and hard wrds that hard to pronounce. Whole time I was reading o slowed down and took my time. Also when sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
1 points

For sure. Try reading outloud and alone. With no one near and low chance that someone come´s in. The goal is to read without stuttering by being alone so your know for a **fact** that you don´t stutte...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association