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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

I am 34 and have had many ups and downs in my life, many embarrassing moments, some job opportunities lost bc of my stutter. We got dealt an unfair card. No one’s arguing that. That said, you’re proba...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

doesn’t trying to “fix” yourself get tiring. ive been stuttering my whole life and though, my stutter isn’t as severe, ive just accepted myself and my stutter and those who will decide to pick fun or ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
23 points

You are not your worst day. You are not your stutter. You are not a failure. You are unique and loved...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Honestly I rather stutter on every word and in every sentence like I already do than choose to be mute and not talk at all...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Same thing with me bro, I stutter regardless if I’m calm or not too, It’s just something we do and something we have to deal with sadly....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

I think you may be misunderstanding what we mean when we say "accepting". You may be thinking it means "just live with your stutter and you can do anything an abled person could do!", but part of "acc...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
15 points

Yes I do that. And it has profoundly improved my stutter till the point I don't stutter anymore. Make a habit for reading a loud daily. Take pauses. Take breaths. Take it easy and just read a loud. ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

I can’t control mine. Mine is a strange one because I’m not bad around my friends but I really struggle speaking to my parents and strangers. So I’d say it’s moderate. I can’t control mine, I don’t ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
8 points

Serious questions

Serious questions I understand that I need to 1000% accept my stutter and realize that it's ok to stutter, In order to make my speech more fluent. But all that accepting and optimism falls face flat o...

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Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

Bro I was just like you till 2 hours ago. You gotta let it go. There is nothing wrong with stuttering why are you scared of a people judging you so much? And if they do they're is your perfect reason ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
5 points

It's all in your head, my friend. Get over yourself. I have a stutter, and I also have a college degree, a successful career (of which I have to talk a lot) and am married. Sure stuttering sucks, but ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I know that feeling of being flawed and unacceptable. I was fortunate to have a wonderful man think I was his dream, stuttering and all. I was eventually allowed to feel valued and worthy. I realize h...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I have the same. I feel embarrassed for them, cringe and hate them and myself. I guess It's an acceptance thing. I don't want to be a stutterer and it's so painful to admit it that I simply can't stan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

My sister’s boss has a stutter and for years didn’t have good fluency. He’s in his late 50s/early 60s and is a scientist who does a lot of public presentations at conferences etc. I didn’t even know h...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
2 points

Try to be confident what I've noticed is the less you care the less other people will care if they feel you don't care about it then they won't see it as a bad thing about just a minor inconvenience a...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

Hi there! It's great to see that you're thinking about your relationship with your stutter and its impact on your interactions. The consequences of not caring about your stutter can vary depending on ...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

acceptance is the only path. people either won't care or find you special (even attractive) for having and owning a stutter. ownership of any kind is potent and makes others interested in you....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
9 points

In my experience, the answer is 1 I decided after years of speech therapy doing little to nothing and speech tricks never becoming a habit after years of practice, that I would stop trying. I decided...

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Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
7 points

Take care of yourself. If you're in a point where you feel the right way to proceed is to not give an f about your stutter, proceed as you see fit. It's a problem that you're making other people's op...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 9, 2023
18 points

What are the consequences of not giving an F?

What are the consequences of not giving an F? Basically the question. What will happen if I don't care about my stutter, no matter how long a block might be (I'm talking about 40 secs of silence block...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride