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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Me too, I'm starting to realize that my current fears are things that a teenager has already overcome or is overcoming. A new problem is starting to arise which will be: do I continue to hide my stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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**Me too, I'm starting to realize that my current fears are things that a teenager has already overcome or is overcoming. A new problem is starting to arise which will be: do I continue to hide my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Quick tip is to use lead-in’s that are easy to say for you and get you able to flow through the more challenging sound. Q: “What’s you’re name? A: “My name is Ted Smith” for example instead of “Ted Sm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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I'm not articulate enough to explain my situation to her and she misunderstood a lot of thing and ended up crying. She thought I didn't care for her and I f*cked up my wording so bad that I seemed emo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Same. I prefer to eat alone. Not because of being shy, i would rather talk to people than be alone all the time but, when they approach me and try to start a conversation, i noticed that i will hate i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Hello! Building an user interface is not my area of expertise. Although I’ve made some web pages but modern web development is pretty much complicated which touches upon many different frameworks to b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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Bruh just go be more friendly, we all stutter yet it’s how you let it affect you that actually has an impact on your life. Ask people what they’re eating and then ask if they want to get food together...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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I honestly prefer to eat by myself. I always get roped in to going out with a few of my co workers thought!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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Listen to the audiobook “Stuttering & Anxiety Self Cures.” There are so many useful tools that helped me in the book. Some of which I use when I’m having a major block. One that was mentioned that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
postr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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Mild stutter but giving specifics is TOUGH

Mild stutter but giving specifics is TOUGH I’m a pretty outgoing person and do a lot of talking and communicating on a daily basis. I don’t have the option not to for work, which has improved my stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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For me I had a similiar experience. I remember in elementary school when I wanted to say something but I decided to stay silent because of stutter, my mind would try to force me to do something, like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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For me it doesnt help currently. Ive gotten extremely fearful of talking so i block hella alot. I just dont talk until its absolutely necessary...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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So on point! I have been focussing on what to say more. I have been stuttering so much these days that I didn't even care if I stuttered. It was like, I'm gonna stutter anyway, so might as well focu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Same issue. I make the vocal message on another chat where I can detele it and know for certain that no one is looking. Then I send it wherever I want. I also hear it many times before and after I sen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Great for you. For me is the opposite as your mother said: **Do not think about what you need to say next.** You don´t need to think about it because you already know. It´s on your mind how would you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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I didnt used to have a stutter when alone or reading, but now i do so i am starting to dread reading too. If i fail at it it makes me feel even worse. Ive become such a quiet person and i feel miserab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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I agree that 100% fluency is not the goal. Even non-stutterer person´s are not that fluent. We -PWS - tend to be overly perfeccionist with our speech and that get´s on our own way. For what you had s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Stutter discord server? Could you please share the link for it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Yes. I am also M30. I could not talk to my dad recently because I cant talk at all in my mother tounge. So I was sending him voice messages without any problems. The thought that you can delete it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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or you want to order diet coke but cant say it so you want order pepsi but you cant say it so you want order anything but you cant ay anything so you walk away. Haha so funny...

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