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postr/StutterMay 19, 2018
1 points

Does talking with your hands help you?

Does talking with your hands help you? I started working recently and my job requires me to be speaking constantly (I know yikes lmao), but what I noticed helps keeps my speech flowing and reduces stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMay 13, 2018
4 points

Starting a new job tomorrow

Starting a new job tomorrow Tomorrow I start a new job where I'm a cashier at a shop in my local amusement park, I've only had one other job and it didn't have nearly as much talking, so I'm pretty ne...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2018
2 points

I've been in sales 20 years, much of it over the phone, much of it talking to people I don't know or don't know well. The truth, for me, at least, is that I still stutter as much as I did before I sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2018
2 points

One of the worst things, in my opinion, that a person who stutters can do is to try to stop stuttering. In my experience (43 years as a person who stutters), the times I have tried to control my speec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2018
1 points

Thats the irony , to be more fluent , you have to stop wanting to be fluent (esp for stutterers, i dont think non stutterers even give a single thought about their fluency )...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2018
3 points

By trying to get more fluent you might have unconsciously started fighting against your stuttering. That leads to more blocking and thus a worse stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2018
1 points

I understand I avoid the phone/radios/walkie-talkies at all cost no matter how much money/promotion was being offered. When I did try everyone would laugh and basically go ”there's *****”. I would l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

It will only bother others if you let it bother you. People don't care about your speech nearly as much as you think....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

When I am in a room by my self I feel that there is less pressure and I feel more at ease. I think the main thing that makes me stutter more is the fear of judgement. I work in an office doing reports...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
2 points

I understand where you're coming from. I'm kinda the same way, especially around meeting new people. I don't know how serious your stutter is, mine has its bad days and good days. I was lucky that my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
1 points

I worked at a fast food restaurant (White Castle) during high school and college. Mostly on the drive thru. Yes, the drive thru! The people i was working with thought it was funny to put the stutterer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2018
1 points

I was both a cashier at a starbucks and security officer for my last 2 years of college. Rarely talked that much as an officer just told people to leave and I was on my own from 6pm-12pm. At the starb...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 30, 2018
7 points

My stuttering came back 1 year ago and it's getting worse day by day, I don't know what to do...

My stuttering came back 1 year ago and it's getting worse day by day, I don't know what to do... Hi. First of all, this is my first post here and I'm sorry if a topic like that has been discussed befo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2018
1 points

That sounds awful. I’m sorry your therapist was so terrible. I had a traumatic experience when I was in the seventh grade- I went to a catholic school and for mass I was one of the students picked to ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2018
1 points

I personally just tell them I have a condition and try to educate them on the subject. In most cases they get embarrassed or don't care about what I'm explaining as their whole "joke" backfired. I d...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2018
9 points

As a pilot, there came a point early on in my training when I had to start learning how to properly talk on the airplane radios during flights. The school's syllabus normally had students begin making...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2018
8 points

I took a job at a theme park so I wouldn’t be so shy. Needless to say by the end of the season I was talking to guest doing that welcome greeting and safety talk. I gotta say though I still hate order...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
7 points

I went to happy hour with go workers, some of which I never met. Introductions and small talk can be a challenge, but I got through it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentNeurological & BrainDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
15 points

Love this thread already! Over my life, I've completely shaped my lifestyle around not having to speak to people. Recently I accepted that this was a huge problem, not only with my speech, but also m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
1 points

I mean like I acknowledged it out loud that I stutter. People noticed, but everyone has been too polite to say anything (as a working adult). I was made fun of all the time as a kid and in HS....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment