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postr/StutterOct 24, 2024
0 points

Why would a guy that hurt me be so concerned over my mental health?

Why would a guy that hurt me be so concerned over my mental health? We only knew each other for a few days. He made the poor choice to tell people he liked me when he was taken. Regardless of how he ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessDating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 22, 2024
18 points

I Cried

I Cried It had been 2.5 years since I last cried. 2.5 years ago, I cried in my room before leaving my home country for masters study in Canada. Starting new life in unknown country with stuttering f...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

Yeah. Tbh didn’t help me. And then I went to a psychiatrist and now I’m worried they think I’m some druggy. When in reality I just have a bad stutter… lol. Wouldn’t do it tbh. Waste of time. And poten...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Harmful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
1 points

Yeah but these people are extraordinary in what they do and have shown that they have the momentum and the will power to do what they did . I have been such a hard stutterer that I can't speak more th...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
1 points

It is hard to make friends for us, I am trying, not working. Fu*k I am depressed so much right now. I want a girlfriend, with this stutter and today's dating situation, I am going to remain single....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceSadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
2 points

Yeah, I know that she didn't do it on purpose but the whole situation just made me angry/sad because I just feel so helpless against my stutter. I can't properly function in a society and even tho I t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
1 points

Thank you for writing this! In a world where everyone is trying to fix their stutter, reading your post was such a breather and provided a lot of clarity to my own thoughts about stuttering. I often g...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
6 points

These feelings come and go in phases for me. I get it. I just think that everyone has some hand they’ve been dealt, everyone struggles with something whether it be physical/mental/emotional/whatever, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
17 points

Recently I’ve been so jealous of every single person I see speaking. I’m just looking at them speaking without a worry and saying what’s in their mind and I just feel so depressed. Sorry if it doesn...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterOct 11, 2024
39 points

How do you keep from being cynical, angry and bitter about the hand you've been dealt?

How do you keep from being cynical, angry and bitter about the hand you've been dealt? I find myself getting jealous of my colleagues, friends and cousins. I know i should not compare myself but somet...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2024
1 points

I stutter all the time, but it’s definitely more moderate compared to other severe stutterers. Sometimes I do feel like I need to explain that it affects me and my mental health. When I try to explain...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessTrauma & PsychologicalSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2024
3 points

How are you feeling at the moment? The more sad I am, the worse my speech is. Have you ever stuttered before? I'd just try to ignore it if this is your first time stuttering because it could just dis...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightSadness & HopelessnessAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2024
20 points

I’ve literally became depressed and numb throughout the entire weekend because I’m worried about the first sentence I’m going to have to say in a phone call I need to make this Sunday. Ffs....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

Literally nothing. I do not feel good. I feel no pleasure, interest or enjoyment in anything (anhedonia). I merely exist....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
3 points

You are stronger than you know. The things that you are enduring right now are adding to your fear and depression. Stuttering is very dependent on anxiety and depression. If you can't situationally h...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightSadness & HopelessnessMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
25 points

Its hard

Its hard My dad is sick, he will retire in 1 year, im still in college, there hasnt been a single night that i havent thought of killing myself. I cant do it, i really wanna be strong and ive been fig...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
2 points

Yes I also find creatine helps - along with exercise, diet, and just a healthy lifestyle in general tends to alleviate the negative psychological impact stuttering has on me - ie fear, anxiety, depres...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityStress & Fight/FlightSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2024
0 points

Yes, my self-confidence was destroyed by always feeling inferior leading to frustration, anxiety, and depression despite having a successful marriage and parenting. Depersonalization definitely fits....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 29, 2024
8 points

I need something to work on

I need something to work on So I stutter. I don’t work. I’m on a disability pension. I tried working. But my stutter always got in the way. And I was so anxious I just gave up trying to work. I get so...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2024
1 points

I feel similar to you. I'm a 20 year old university student as well. I want to get my degree but I doubt I'll be putting it to good use. Lately it seems like more days I cry out of loneliness/frust...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency