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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
48 points

The mental anguish associated with dealing with it all. Planning out what you're going to say at an event months in advanced. It's mentally taxing and physically draining. They will never understand t...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
2 points

Hey, mine is awful too, compared to what you heard its x3 times worse when im in a stressful situation, thank you your kind words i really appreciate them but to us stutters i think we wont ever feel ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
1 points

I hear you. It sounds really exhausting. You’ve worked hard to overcome anxiety and build confidence, yet stuttering still takes so much effort. That frustration makes total sense. I don't fear talki...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
1 points

Thank you - and the therapy helped with the anxiety? My son has become so angry everytime it happens... he's started therapy, hoping it helps him with the anger/frustration....

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

What are you even talking about? What the f**k do you want from me and everyone else who stutters? Do you know me personally? Do you have something against me or what 🤪...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

It does feel like some cruel joke … it felt like the whole world was sitting on my chest and had its hands around my throat. I couldn’t even get a sound out and that’s so demoralizing 🫠...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

I feel like it always happens to me whenever I have a good idea or some great input. It’s almost like the more I want to say something, the harder it is to. It’s such a frustrating feeling that people...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerPropositionality & WeightExperiential Association
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
30 points

“Just spit it out”

“Just spit it out” This is the most insulting thing I’ve ever heard, from my own family, no less. I’m in my late 30s and just started struggling with getting words out. By the time I can regain my com...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2025
18 points

Sitting here at a family party

Sitting here at a family party This condition sucks so bad, i want to be social and talk to family that i havent seen in awhile and i just cant. They probably think im stuck up cause im just sitting h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
6 points

Stuttering in an abusive household

Stuttering in an abusive household I just feel like putting this out in the world tonight. It is midnight where I am, and I had quite a day at work. I work for a high profile financial institution. To...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
11 points

Rude lead dimmed my confidence today

Rude lead dimmed my confidence today I just started my job as a crisis counselor, and my trainer is incredibly overbearing. He wants me to share all of my screens and set up my computer exactly like h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
1 points

This is unfortunate. This right here is what they who deal with this, do not need to hear. They already fear we feel frustrations when they talk which only exacerbates the disfluency. ……. They are j...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
4 points

this is the wrong reddit group, please go somewhere else to take out your fustration. I know that guy is also in wrong position for other bad social behaviours but stuttering is not in his control. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
0 points

coworker has unbearable stutter

coworker has unbearable stutter i empathize with people who have mental or neurological disorders that are not completely in their control. however, one of my coworkers has an unbearable stutter. the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

Yes, I agree. They are not your friends. I’m 45 F, and years ago I was living in Omaha Nebraska. Papillion to be exact (a suburb of Omaha). Anyway I went to college for one year in South Dakota and me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
26 points

Missing out life changing opportunities

Missing out life changing opportunities Hi, 30(M) here. I have been stuttering for my whole life and currently working or should i say surviving in the cyber security domain. Dont wanna brag but i a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
23 points

Happiness

Happiness I have never met a person with stuttering like me. Today I made this reddit account to join this community and for some reason I feel accepted and comfortable for the first time in a while. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2025
2 points

Exactly..people have seemingly expected me to be immune to embarrassment. Almost like a psycho or superhuman..like why tf am I going to keep stressing myself out & hurting my mental & physical health ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
2 points

Fuck the planned word block. It's the worst when you're in a company meeting and it's your turn to speak as they're going round robin around at the table. I get the first sentence out and then boom th...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2025
5 points

Hi friend, You are not alone, I’m 30, today I had to make a phone call and I blocked like 5 seconds on saying “Nine” My wife was near me, seeing me struggle she patted lightly on my shoulder and ev...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+1 more