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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
3 points

It’s not our stutters that effect us it’s how we perceive them...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 13, 2022
12 points

If you could get paid EVERYTIME you stutter, would you still try to get rid of it?

If you could get paid EVERYTIME you stutter, would you still try to get rid of it? Let's say you get $1,000 everytime you stutter, would you still want to get rid of it or just accept it because you'r...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
3 points

I just rewatched the scene, i completely forgot at the end, he says, you stuttering prick 🤣 how fitting to the conversation...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
3 points

Yeah it does bother me. I know its intended as a compliment most of the time but it still bugs me. Maybe to some people a stutter sounds cute, but it certainly doesn’t feel cute to have it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
4 points

I had a friend say he thought I was the most philosophical person he'd ever met because I always started sentences so slowly! I'll happily take that....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
1 points

it bothers me slightly, yes. i think because when people say somethings cute, it’s a positive thing. and for me, my stutter has brought me nothing but negativity. so i guess it’s a “you don’t know my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
3 points

IKR. Seems like such a waste - i'd give up this nice voice in a second for another quality I can actually get some consistent mileage out of, like being good with cars....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
2 points

I've also been told I have a nice clear voice but it doesn't help with a stutter...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
3 points

I've been told a lot that I have a nice voice and should do radio...oh the irony, if they only knew....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 12, 2022
26 points

Does it bother anyone else when someone says your stutter is cute?

Does it bother anyone else when someone says your stutter is cute? I(30F) have a friend around my age that likes to tell me they think my stutter is cute. It tends to be when we are talking about it a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2022
1 points

I second that notion. I'm not just intrigued, I'm enamored by this idea. If you need a writer advocate who knows first hand the hardships of stuttering let me know. andrewgluvna1@gmail.com....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
1 points

Present again. And again. And again. And get used to stuttering. I think advertising your stutter is useful, but I don't think it's 100% necessary. People will figure out if you stutter quickly. If th...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
8 points

I can relate to this in multiple ways. From my adolescent years to now. I've had jobs where it was blatantly told to me that certain people didn't want to talk to me because of my speech affliction. T...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
3 points

my stutter made me who I am. I cant blame it for not having friends anymore. Ive been very unlucky the past years, covid lockdowns pretty much ruined my last chance for a while and I've made some deci...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
3 points

To be honest, I don’t think my awkwardness stems from stuttering. I think it more so comes from stuff like social anxiety. I was always extremely socially awkward during my college years, I’m 23 now… ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
5 points

Bro shut up. You’re putting all of that on yourself with that shitty mindset. And where on earth does it say you have to be attractive to have a friend? Keep your fucking head up man. We all have stut...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
1 points

Most of us get over it early so don't panic. You can change your attitude towards stuttering. This will be difficult and could take time, years, perhaps. By all means try the techniques, I tried...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterAug 10, 2022
8 points

How come some people's voices are a lot easier to listen to when they stutter?

How come some people's voices are a lot easier to listen to when they stutter? I don't mean to sound judgemental, I genuinely am interested what is going on here. One of my friends stutters and his s...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Repetitions & ProlongationsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
1 points

Wasn’t my experience. I’m 33 and my stutter is much more pronounced than during high school. I was extremely covert back then though and very ashamed. These days I don’t put in any effort to hide it, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
7 points

It's usual bro, just persevere. When I can successfully get my message across, it doesn't matter if I stutter. Just don't make it a habit of lying else you create a false identity. Stuttering is norma...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy