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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2018
1 points

Could be. It's hard to tell as he clearly has some social-communication quirks that are pretty intense. For example, is the lack of eye gaze from Aspergers or a secondary behavior to prevent an over...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterAug 17, 2018
15 points

I start college in two days

I start college in two days I am nervous that on the first day of class there is going to be an icebreaker where they make us go around the room and introduce ourselves. That happened a lot in school....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 14, 2018
24 points

Exhausted by Stuttering!

Exhausted by Stuttering! I'm a 21 year old university student with a stammer since age 6 and I am absolutely tired of it. How do you go through life when you can't even communicate? Naturally I am fun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2018
1 points

Yeah this is kinda the whole point I have been trying to say about dopamine and I always reference one paper when speaking about this. That paper is called [The Dopamine Dilemma](https://www.ncbi.nlm...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainStimulants & CaffeineHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2018
6 points

Do you hide your stutter in general? If you're embarassed saying "upper person", you may as well just say "boss" instead. No reason to change your language if the result isn't an improvement....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 12, 2018
28 points

Tfw you cant call your boss "boss" because you block on the B so you refer to him as "upper person"

Tfw you cant call your boss "boss" because you block on the B so you refer to him as "upper person" When I talk to my coworkers when I need to refer to my boss I say upper person. Get a weird look eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2018
1 points

Have your mom tried to correct your stutter, during regular conversations in past years? The fact that she's a quiet person, could mean they she hides her stutter also?...

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & Avoidance
Parent Emotions & GuiltHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 8, 2018
12 points

Running into problems that I can’t avoid anymore.

Running into problems that I can’t avoid anymore. Ok so I want to start out by saying I have a mild to moderate stutter. I’m 18 and going off to college soon and for the most part stuttering has given...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2018
2 points

_When someone mentions depression and suicide, I have to mention r/depression and r/SuicideWatch. You're not alone. Get help. Get medicated. Get better._ ---   >**I mask it quite well w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 7, 2018
12 points

Which Career should i choose ? And whats your career or job as a person who stammers?

Which Career should i choose ? And whats your career or job as a person who stammers? Im a moderate (sometimes severe).i just wanted some advice on what career is suitable for stammerers , im a senior...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterAug 6, 2018
5 points

Depression / Suicidal Thoughts

Depression / Suicidal Thoughts Bit of an intro first. I'm British, 25 years old and I've been stuttering pretty badly since I was 15. I've reached a stage where I mask it quite well with word substitu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2018
3 points

It's a two way street. We know how frustrating it is. Personally I hate being told that. The thing is, that hyper-awareness is very real and arguably just as damaging as struggling to communicate. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
2 points

Wow I can relate to this. I know that “look” too! It sucks. If anything I feel like my dating life would be much better if I didn’t stutter. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
1 points

Prior to getting the job I had now, I went through a lot of interviews post college, so I dealt with a lot of interviews. Sometimes my stutter was good, and sometimes it was bad. It really just depend...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
1 points

I do work with some YA fiction! Not as much as I do romance, but my most recent big success was with a YA series dealing with social issues (I do cover design, marketing, branding, and promotion). So ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 3, 2018
8 points

Question about a book I'm thinking of writing

Question about a book I'm thinking of writing Hey guys, I'm a covert (and sometimes not so covert) stutterer, and have been for pretty much all of my life. I'm 48 now, so that's a long time. ;) I'm a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterAug 2, 2018
13 points

Career choice and stuttering is an obstacle

Career choice and stuttering is an obstacle I have been working as a software engineer for about 12 years now . Originally I am from India and I make good money in USA. I have a son who is 3 years old...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
2 points

I stutter in a weird way, it comes and goes and mostly presents as not being able to get my "S" or "M" sounds out. I do a lot of public speaking at my meetings (religious), whether it be from my seat ...

Speech & StutteringSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsPublic Speaking+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2018
2 points

I am here to tell you, don't be scared. I have worked in hospitality for 8 years now, and I have a stutter. Sometimes I cant even get my words out. But its no issue. I have worked in bars and restau...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterAug 1, 2018
8 points

I've been avoiding retail and customer service jobs like the plague!

I've been avoiding retail and customer service jobs like the plague! I work full time in a non-speaking position (dream job for a stutterer, right?), but I want to earn a little extra cash to knock my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more