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postr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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Discussion: the cause of stuttering

Discussion: the cause of stuttering Let's discuss the underlying mechanism of stuttering. Researchers come up with different ideas about what causes stuttering. It's possible for two ideas that seem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringNeurological & Brain+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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Yes, you absolutely can! It's the fear of stuttering that can be so debilitating. If you focus on being a good communicator instead of putting your energy into not stuttering, you can become very empo...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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I think one of the biggest problems is just being a teenager, stutter or not. Starting to plan out your life and becoming an adult is stressful enough. Stuttering only amplifies it. I eventually real...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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Your suggestion to volunteer is very good - I would have never thought of this myself. My school actually has volunteering opportunities so I think I will ask for the list of available positions next ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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The inability to speak, to live a normal, average life, this starts at school, when you are perceived as "shy, quiet," and what am I supposed to be? J since I can't speak fluently? If you volunteer to...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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no. my confidence issues are not intrinsic, while my stutter is. With my SOs, I do still stutter, but I feel confident because they don't act like jackasses about it. Lack of confidence is an effect o...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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Whats worked in my case (may not work in yours)

Whats worked in my case (may not work in yours) I've been a stutterer since I was 10. Been to all the therapists, tried all the tricks, and I'm happy to say that it doesn't play a major role in my lif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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People assuming I’ve been drinking. 😪 Or that in plastered. Oh and being told to take a deep breath. Fuck off....

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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If only stutterers had the problem of indecisiveness in relationships with the opposite sex, it would be valid....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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No it doesnt. Your premises is wrong too. We lack confidence because we stutter, not the other way around. Else there would be many more people with a stutter....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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The same thing happens to me all the time, I stammer less when I am around with friends but can barely speak when I am alone with strangers....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Good for you, dude! I've never even thought about coming by and starting a conversation with anyone, especially girls :/ Keep practice for it makes perfect!...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Afraid to start conversations unless it’s someone I know very well (that knows I’m stuttering)...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Maybe it’s similar to how people are generally more confident in groups than alone. A person complimenting a strangers shoes on the street will find it much easier if he was with friends than if he wa...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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when I’m around my work buddy, I can say customers totals just fine but working alone, I can’t

when I’m around my work buddy, I can say customers totals just fine but working alone, I can’t My friend works with me when’s she’s home from college and for the last three weeks I’ve been in a horrib...

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Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Conversation with a girl in university

Conversation with a girl in university Yesterday i saw a girl sitting, and i asked here if i can set next to her, she said yeah its fine sit. i sat down and starting doing my things. After like 10 min...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2023
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Social anxiety is what fuels stuttering. I honestly believe it's the main cause. It's much easier said than done, but you have to learn not to care what other people think....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2023
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Same here. That fact give us a big clue; is the other person that triggers our negative response. If you manage to handle your beliefs and reactions about the interaction with a third person you wil...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2023
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Nope. I’ve been going to speech therapy all my school life because I was forced to. Once a week. I dreaded it. It just gave me anxiety and low self-esteem by them forcing me to talk and hear myself st...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentUnhelpful Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2023
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It’s okay buddy just know that we all have a purpose, talking for me was a really rough experience, it was rough until I accepted being the odd ball and if people judge you by your voice it is their l...

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Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy