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postr/StutterNov 21, 2023
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Does anyone else stutter in their own native language(a) but speaks fine in non native languages?

Does anyone else stutter in their own native language(a) but speaks fine in non native languages? I'm this and it's annoying af. I don't even know why I stutter in Russian and Belarusian but don't stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterNov 21, 2023
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What can be the reason for stutter starting to happen later in life?

What can be the reason for stutter starting to happen later in life? So my stuttering started only in a last year or so. Most of the time I don’t even register it happening, I just realise after the c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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I tend to think out loud, and people have always called me weird for it. But It never bothered me...

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Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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44 yr old journo with a stutter

44 yr old journo with a stutter Hi Thought I'd do a post about my stutter in the hope that even a tiny bit of it can help someone. My stutter was noticed when I was at nursery. So, I've had one for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSituational Variability+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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>On a positive note, my technical skills speak for themselves, and given the right resources, I can create solutions that can even replace certain HR functions. Horseshit. Comments like that are j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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Talk to myself sometimes

Talk to myself sometimes Wonder if others who stutter also do this. Try to keep it when I’m alone, but it creeps out some. Makes it even harder for me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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This is a great answer. The only way to not care that you stutter is to talk to AS MANY STRANGERS AS POSSIBLE. Disclosure helps. Most people don’t care, and those who do you will see are assholes who...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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I worked at a job where for some reason my stutter got triggered constantly. Mainly, on the phone. It was terrible. Ever since I’ve been scared of the phone 🤣 As I get older I try to remind myself...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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Thank you for the kind words and encouraging words. I don't want to face the embarrassment that comes from the blocks. I can present or talk to people no problem but having to say my name is my bigges...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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I've been exactly where you are 10+ years ago. And the best advice I can give in a situation like this, is to brace yourself and go to the doctor. I went to a speech therapist for years, and a big par...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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Need to go to the doctor and I'm trying to avoid it, all because of the speech blocks

Need to go to the doctor and I'm trying to avoid it, all because of the speech blocks I hate going to the doc or going places where I'd be asked for my name. I don't want to feel the anxiety that come...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2023
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I´ve heard something similar once. Then I relapsed. Later I´ve heard something similar from somebody else. Then I relapsed. Later again. Then I relapsed. Now I dont hear it anymore :D True story,...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2023
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I really wish I was advised to get into acting as a kid. I truly believe that it would have helped a great deal....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Whatever you are scared to do, do it. Start with ordering food at drive thrus, then progress to in person orders, make social interaction comfortable...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
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postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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What should I do? (Advice request)

What should I do? (Advice request) I (male, 18yo) have a severe stutter since I started to talk, I have been to a speech therapist and taking pills to depresion and anxiety for 5 mouths, all my life m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Of course, started stuttering at 5 years old and this shit getting even worse, currently at 19. Feels like being in cage, can't be myself, can only watch people around chatting freely, flirting. Eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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My own brother makes fun of my stuttering

My own brother makes fun of my stuttering I had to ask my older brother a question, and he was in his room, I was in the hallway. He didn't hear me, so I rephrased the question a bit oddly. He asked m...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Do's and Dont's of Stammers in Fiction

Do's and Dont's of Stammers in Fiction Hello there. To preface, I do not have a stammer myself, and therefore obviously am not a part of your community. I've done research into the condition, but woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Yes I am the exact same, I actually love talking to people but never do, 1 because its too much work (emotional and physical) and 2 because I can never be my true self like you said. I really want...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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There is the me that could have been but I'm not that person. I could never have been. This is my life. I'm the person I have had to be. Most of the things that put people off about me aren't my stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more