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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2016
3 points

I don't want to be remembered as a stuttering mess. I don't see how being remembered as someone who can't talk properly is a positive....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2016
3 points

I had to give a big presentation in front of my school a while back. At first I thought it would be just a dozen people or so but then the entire school ended up coming. I stuttered really badly and t...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2016
3 points

I hate it too. That's why I don't talk much. Therefore my family thinks I'm antisocial, I'm about to lose my job because I don't interact well enough, every girl I know thinks I'm weird, I have no fri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2016
1 points

I'm more of a blocker myself, and when I'm stuck on a word and I'm in a situation where I can't use a different word for the same meaning.. things get horrible. Sometimes my face contorts, sometimes ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2016
5 points

I feel that way a lot when I stutter or have a hard time pronunciation a word and I see the person's facial expression - cringing and confused. I hate that feeling. It's been really difficult for me r...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener ReactionsEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 16, 2016
5 points

Mouth injuries--or, when stuttering is literally painful

Mouth injuries--or, when stuttering is literally painful As the result of a small mishap, I had to call the IRS last week. This was a HUGE deal for me. I couldn't just let my SO make the call for me (...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Physical TensionFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2016
1 points

My speech therapy in school was focused so much on the emotional impact of stuttering. Which was quite unhelpful. Finally by middle school I had the balls to tell my ST, I don't have a self-esteem pr...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesShame & EmbarrassmentUnhelpful Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2016
1 points

I too was never bullied in school. I didn't want to put myself out there to be a target so I kept my mouth shut almost all of my elementary + high school years. I do not like my image as a stutterer....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2016
1 points

I thought it was good. The actor that played the kid was really good; he really sounded like he stuttered. I felt really embarrassed at the situations that he was in. Good movie....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2016
3 points

I took speech classes as well, but they didn't help me any. However, I am not sure that it was because of the class. I think it was more of me just believing that I could never stop stuttering, so the...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
2 points

By deconstruct I mean it kills of my abilities. If I am confident but I stutter then it seems like I lack confidence or am shy or something. Also I can't make jokes or be that charming cuz it just com...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
1 points

Several girls had crushes on me in high-school. Some would talk to me first but would then stop because I was such a bore due to me hiding my stuttering. I have never tried to pick up girls and don't...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2016
2 points

What other people think is not even the number issue with me but rather disappointing myself. I am embarrassed in front of myself if that makes sense. I have always held myself up to high standards an...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2016
1 points

I feel like my issue is a lot weirder than most. (I stutter as well, mind you.) See, I suffer from major aphasia. I lose words, all the time. Basic, stupid words. I lost the word "cup" the other day, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
1 points

There is a signficant group of people who stutter that have a perfectionistic personality. To them every stutter feels like failing, since it's not the perfect fluent speech they demand of themselves....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
1 points

It's interesting, based on what you've written it almost seems as though you view stuttering as failing. I wonder why you might equate it to failing if it's not something you had a choice in. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
1 points

Huh...That pretty much dissects my problem. I never really thought that's what he meant but I guess it makes sense. My reaction is much stronger then others in almost everything I do especially when I...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2016
1 points

Indeed it does. I just keep my mouth shut and avoid social gatherings because I hate looking like a fucking idiot. I haven't gotten used to the embarrassment and probably never will. It's very hard n...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical TensionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2016
2 points

One trick is learning to remove the shame. To really stop caring about what people think and to find people you truly feel connected to and can be yourself with. That makes all the difference....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2016
-6 points

The fact that you want a hand out for something that millions of other people can cope with and live a normal life is the only retarded thing in this subreddit. There are plenty of jobs you can get wh...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment