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postr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
24 points

Stuttering and The Whale

Stuttering and The Whale I watched The Whale by Brendan Fraser a couple days ago, and it got me reflecting on my own stutter and experience in a way that I'd like to share. The film keeps coming back...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

It will never be as simple as “just stop caring” it doesn’t happen overnight. Time is a big factor, becoming an adult and having no choice but to advocate for yourself. Representation is important, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
12 points

> for people that have stutter from child to adulthood do you think it destroyed your confidence? helped your confidence? it did both. for most of my teenage years it destroyed it. a turning point...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
11 points

This is going to be kind of long, I hope you read it all the way through 😊 I'm going to tell you a story of something I did along time ago that helped shape me into what I am now. When I was in t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2023
1 points

I started stuttering when I was 10. Would stutter 30-40 percent of the time until I was 20, as I got older and became more calm and confident it went down. From 30, I stutter maybe 5% of the time. Kee...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2023
5 points

Thank you for this, I did some research and I found some programs similar to the ones you’ve mentioned. I feel more motivated to start now knowing that there will be help out there when it’s time for ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2023
1 points

I don't know how one stops caring. I think it's different for everyone. I don't think it's something you can work on directly because the very act of working on not caring means you care. It's like wh...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2023
2 points

What’s your secret brother? How to you live your life without letting your stutter get in the way?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
2 points

😂😂 Glad fam. Keep your head up high, we got this :) ! There's so much more to life and even simple communique than our stutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
2 points

Confidence in myself is what I was told by another person who is a public speaker is a main key I use. It helps me day today, along with the other techniques I use. If you want to look at it, as if yo...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
7 points

Everybody who stutters and feels like a shit should regularly visit a gym. It is like a therapy but it works xD You will feel like a shit anyway but you are more sexi. jk ​ It will increa...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
15 points

Yes, absolutely. I find that looking the part of a “tough guy” usually turns that around somewhat. I seem to get a bit more respect being a larger, sorta muscular guy compared to how I was treated whe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
7 points

I think you should continue, as it is all about stepping out of your comfort zone. Few weeks is a very short time to come to the conclusion, usually it takes min few months to see results. It's not ab...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesHope & Motivation
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
52 points

Experience as a stutterer in dating

Experience as a stutterer in dating After a 4 years since my last first date, i recently had a chance to go out again. Was really worried about what would it be like when i inevitably stuttered and it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
0 points

I understand your perspective, I don't mean to sound insensitive. Yes some people have a hard time overcoming the past, I get that; especially those who experienced childhood trauma. I myself everyday...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
2 points

Dwelling on negative experiences is pointless and very damaging. If we are still alive, then the past has been overcome...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
1 points

I saw a YouTube video of the NHS ‘Stammer School’. It was amazing what 4 days did for those people. Some couldn’t even say their name and after the 4 days they were speaking to strangers in the street...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
0 points

Yes I have moments like that 😓 it's best to move on and be happy that we overcome those times...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2023
1 points

Look up Lee Lovett on YouTube. It is free! Go to www.worldstopstuttering.org. Lee’s books are on Amazon.I have been fluent for over 4 years after stuttering for 50. If you work it, it will work....

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
4 points

Girl sameee. I’ve been crying about my stutter a lot these past few days and I swear, before I was 11, I felt so happy and was surprisedly social. But I guess I grew more self conscious as I grew olde...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation