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postr/StutterJun 23, 2019
12 points

Suttering as an Elephant in the room for me

Suttering as an Elephant in the room for me I am 22 yo stutterer and I my experience lately is different than before. Currently at the university and in the work (I work in corporate company as a Busi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2019
1 points

Do you just have to show them the code and not have say it? Cause McDonald's has the same option but you have to tell them the code and it's bs...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2019
1 points

I regret not doing it. I've been struggling with mental health issues and I think my stutter is at the heart of them but I've never addressed it directly. I'm a covert stutterer and most people won't ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2019
2 points

its both. there is always something in the menu i can fall back if i have a block. like "can a have a number one" from McDonald's. I know that is easy for me to say. but i like to practice and orde...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 21, 2019
23 points

I'm tired

I'm tired My whole life I have tried my best to ignore my speech disfluency. I have tried to cover it up, I have tried to hide it. I have never succeed. I'm tired of being embarrassed at work or at ho...

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postr/StutterJun 21, 2019
68 points

sometimes when I am felling like mad lad. i order food in the drive through.

sometimes when I am felling like mad lad. i order food in the drive through. then i ask for the food I want to eat instead of the food that is easy for me to say...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 21, 2019
7 points

Social skills

Social skills I’ve been stuttering ever since I can remember with a mild to moderate stutter. As a kid it was rough always the outcast and I think it’s because of my stutter but I’m not sure. It wasn’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2019
1 points

I felt the same way for a long time. I realize more and more most people don't care if you stutter or not. I cared way more about it than needed. Too much of an emotional drain. Gave me a better p...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2019
1 points

Sorry for getting back to you late. I had a busy day at work. During the clinical portion of your training, you will have to speak with patients and also to the whole team. We also had an oral exam at...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
2 points

It's not hard to interact with the patients. After a while you get used to it and get relaxed around them, especially since they are at a lower level than you. The hard part, I'm sure you know, is int...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
2 points

Sorry being late on the answer, but better late than never. Also a scientist here (applied physics, PhD, Europe). I have been stuttering since being a child and working in my field in an "applied rea...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
6 points

I’d say the biggest thing is be confident. Even if you aren’t, fake it. Demand respect by looking people in the eye when you talk and if they try to cut you off, politely hold up your hand or indicate...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
1 points

Same here, I work with kids and never stutter. Being able to experience fluency is a real perk of my job....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
3 points

I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been stuttering since I can remember but it always seems worse with people who I hold in higher regard like my father or boss. I typically do a good job of hiding my ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
2 points

this works for me most of the time ....try looking the person in the eye when speaking to them ....it helps...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
1 points

I've found that most people in public are empathic to a stutter but it depends on how you do it. If you stutter like its no biggie, most people will look past it. I know some people might just wonder...

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Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2019
3 points

The same thing happens to me. I just ignore everyone because if I talk, I will stutter, so everyone thinks I'm a weirdo....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJun 16, 2019
18 points

Has stuttering made you more mature and an introvert?

Has stuttering made you more mature and an introvert? Fear of stuttering made me a introvert... It made a talk a lot less.... I have noticed that I stopped taking part in discussions and talks.... I j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
3 points

very well put. also, as a covert stutterer, i’ll tell you that it makes you feel like an absolute piece of shit and it’s not worth it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 15, 2019
19 points

My experiences with my stutter

My experiences with my stutter I'm new to this board, but after responding to a prior post regarding stuttering today, I had to create my own post sharing my experiences and what I've learned ranging ...

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