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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
2 points

I think I am pretty smart to myself but as soon as I try to explain something or think and speak I just can't do it I block up and don't say anything get red and embarrassed​. I constantly and trying ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterMay 5, 2017
21 points

Didn't know this subreddit existed... Guess this is a vent.

Didn't know this subreddit existed... Guess this is a vent. Seriously, how do you deal with depression? I never win arguments/debates, never contribute in conversations because I know I'll embarrass m...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2017
1 points

I do have plenty of positive qualities, yet I feel I'm either unable to show them or they are outshined by my very severe stuttering and social anxiety.. As a result I see myself as a defective person...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2017
11 points

When I'm roasting somebody they don't mind the stuttering, cause they already know about it. But yeah it does ruin the timing/momentum of the roast/joke which sucks, and that leads to more self hate :...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2017
1 points

This! Even if OP were to change their name to something easier to say, in 6 months the stutter on their name will be back. It's all about practice. My name starts with "B" and i stutter on that soun...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2017
1 points

Hear you That must have sucked if someone close to you just straight out tells you to stop stuttering in despise. No one has told me hatefully to stop stuttering, maybe once a year i get the calm dow...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

I have never accepted my stuttering, but to me it seems people who accept it are less anxious (if all) about it and thus improving it alot by "just" accepting. I 100% blame my stuttering for having m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterApr 25, 2017
5 points

I got teased in class (;kinda)

I got teased in class (;kinda) Sorry for typo, on mobile. So in class today I got picked on to read a math problem and explain how to do it, I said something along the lines of "if you uhmm like like...

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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2017
3 points

I'd say it can lower you're life expectancy if you let it. Because stress kills. I wanted to blow my head off for years until I said fuck it, stuttering isn't worth killing yourself over or being ter...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationSadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2017
8 points

My advice is stop avoiding. Work on slowly becoming ok feeling shame (aka feeling like shit) and it will lessen. Then instead of avoiding you feel scared and shitty stuttering, you'll just stutter on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2017
1 points

I wish it could be!! See i got rejction so dmn freaking time that now i dont hope for any kind of acceptnce !! Anywys thnx for understng me!! Thats really generous of u...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 21, 2017
0 points

Yes i stutter.

Yes i stutter. Hy everbody. i m about to complete my post graduation this year, so ihve decided to search for a job also ,i have been trying a lot to get a job since 2015 but unfortunatly my tounge(t...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
2 points

Well thanks I guess lol To be honest, I'm still conflicted about showing stuttering as something to laugh at. On one hand, being made fun of because of something you can't control and is already maki...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
3 points

Oh, I think you can find yourself compulsively dwelling on something without necessarily being self-pitying...but that's another conversation. I'm going by this post, of course, which OP said he or s...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
0 points

Repeatedly dwelling on it would be self pity, but we have no way of knowing whether or not OP does that or not....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
3 points

I've seen this in the comments on YouTube videos sometimes. I never understand it. Like....who would fake a stutter??? Ok, yes, there's some nut somewhere faking a stutter. But, really, the chance...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2017
3 points

Not too sure either, never been accused of faking it before. Maybe it could be because they haven't met that many people with one so they don't really understand it, and so maybe they thought you were...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 14, 2017
10 points

Why do so many people think I'm "faking" my stutter online?

Why do so many people think I'm "faking" my stutter online? I have a pretty bad stutter as it is. I get stuck on syllables, I go "uh, um, like" when I'm talking, and my face gets pretty mangled as I'm...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2017
9 points

>It was long and tortured and at the end he said he didn't understand the point of the conversation or whether or not he was supposed to be giving me advice, but he just shook my hand and walked aw...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2017
15 points

It's really starting to have an effect on my quality of life.

It's really starting to have an effect on my quality of life. Warning, incoming vent about quality of life: I should start by saying that I am 26 and have had a stutter since I was 5. So I have had i...

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