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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
5 points

There's a difference between talking about negative aspects of stuttering, of which there are many, and being "blackpilled" like op says. If you're life is bad because of your stutter, fine. But like ...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
4 points

Yeah, you are overreacting. Living with a stutter is not rainbows and sunshine. Some people may not have the mental power to change their perspective on life. Or lived with traumatic experiences with ...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
2 points

Negativity stands out. You can get 100 positive reactions to a post, but one negative comment can still bother you. This community is overall fantastic. All we can really do is empathize, validate how...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
1 points

High school is rough I wish I wasn’t in my head as much back then and just gave myself a break and take no shit but life gets better the older you get and you make life long friends :)...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
4 points

Amen, that's the majority of what I've seen recently. Like, I understand the negative feelings, and I get that some people just need empathy and validation. But it's counterproductive after a point....

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
21 points

It's a select group of people spamming a lot of posts and comments. Unfortunately I think they are mostly teenage boys, I know when I was that age I was also very angry and bitter at the world. Being...

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2023
43 points

Influx of “black pilled” stutter posts is odd

Influx of “black pilled” stutter posts is odd I haven’t been super active on here lately but once in a while I do read through posts. When I first joined the sub in 2019, I joined because I wanted a p...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
3 points

No you definitely can win it don’t give up. It sounds like you’re just mad at life. You need to figure this shit out for yourself first before you can try to beat it...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
6 points

I'm so glad you found inspiration in Kendrick and I completely agree with you that finding out that your favourite artist or someone you look up to also had the issue that you are facing. It's truly i...

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2023
73 points

recently found out that Kendrick had a stutter. It gave me so much hope! I've been struggling with severe stuttering all my life. Now Kendrick is not only my favorite artist, but also the main inspiration to fight my stuttering one day and start making music too instead of being crazy all the time

recently found out that Kendrick had a stutter. It gave me so much hope! I've been struggling with severe stuttering all my life. Now Kendrick is not only my favorite artist, but also the main inspira...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
4 points

Why do I find the majority saying negative and pessimistic things about their stuttering? This is something that I did not find here only, but also in other disorders groups , posts like i cant beat i...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

Don't ever give up! I lived with my stuttering from age 4-5 until I became fully fluent at age 70. Mine was caused by my anger and resentment from an abusive childhood. Psychotherapy unlocked my speec...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
5 points

Talk on not letting the stutter define you, when you start stuttering, don’t say sorry. Let people know you have a stutter and you can repeat yourself, but keep from saying sorry as much as possible. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

I worked at a fast food chain as a teen. A lady put her hand over her heart and said in the most condescendingly sweet voice “Are you stupid?”! We are better than those people. Congrats on the job an...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
1 points

You are having trouble bc *it’s not a very useful suggestion*. There are more parts to it. They are not necessarily fun or easy, but they can work… If you do the work, it will not take years. And,...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
1 points

We all have setbacks in our speech, at times I have doubt myself as well, but then I remmeber who am I and what I've had to go through to get to where I am today. Thats the same for yourself. You mad...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

So I guess the people here saying life has gotten better are all just liars out to make you feel bad? I suppose they magically woke up one day fluent and happy having put in zero effort. Cmon man. It...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

It's not easy. It takes years. The fact that you're trying to improve your mindset means you're on the right path. You have to stay positive, because what's the alternative? Being miserable for the...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
3 points

Everyone gets disillusioned from time to time. We gotta keep battling and working through it, including acceptance to a degree. This is an obstacle only a small percentage of people understand and go ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
6 points

This. It was a very slow, gradual process for me. Took me years. Experience is a big factor IMO. If you keep looking at everything in a very black/white, pass/fail lens, then I've failed a LOT. Job ...

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