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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
3 points

I think the best way to look at it is to develop a better understanding/relationship with yourself. I like to look at it how you belong to yourself before anyone else, and you are your own best friend...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
5 points

Stuttering may make other people uncomfortable, but that's mainly just them feeling bad for the person stuttering and awkward because they don't know what to do. But stutterers feel uncomfortable ar...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
7 points

naaahhhhh i'm willing to bet this is internalised negativity and self hate talking. I used to think like this until I: 1. Actually talked to other people who stutter 2. Gained more self esteem and a ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
-3 points

What are you talking about? I'm not referring to personalities here I'm referring to the stutter itself....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
5 points

try talking to a stutterer you like and a stutterer you don't like, you'll understand the difference between being a stutterer or being boring...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
-1 points

Saying "I am glad I am atleast able to speak" Isn't a healthy mindset. That's like saying "Yeah I'm starving to death but atleast I'm not dead", Which totally invalidates what you're going through. Ga...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

I dont think we should mind it. We should not look around. We are not Stutterers. We are just people who stutters. I have a very bad stutter. But I know I am more than just my stutter , my race ,my g...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
8 points

I understand your perspective, but the fact of the matter is that they are in my organization. As long as they are here, I'm going to do what I can to make them feel welcome. Not to mention, having t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
13 points

Suttering is making me lose my sanity, When I see posts like these It's a constant reminder of why I should despise stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

I’m not sure! I will notice if he gets into a really long block, but most of the time if you were to ask me how many times he stuttered in a sentence or on what words, I couldn’t tell you. I mean, of ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
3 points

I’m curious, my wife notices and she’ll says something like wow your speech is really good today. But my sister says she doesn’t even notice. You said you barely notice now. Do you just accept that t...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

They're good friends but they cross the line at times. Especially one of them but I also consider him one of my closest friends too, which is strange...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

I stuttered and in my class I ranked 234 out of 234. And for all those curious as an adult I’m doing just fine. Married with kids and just bought a new house. So I guess I debunked the theory of a t...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 28, 2023
26 points

Congratulations!!

Congratulations!! I know stuttering sucks and all, but it just occured to me, have you ever thought, like what are the ODDS? I mean you had a 1% chance of having a stutter sometime in your life. Out ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

I feel your pain. I sometimes am thinking of forgetting about my passion (ART, theater) and go into Medicine/Neuroscience, sacrifice my life to it, in hopes that the future generation will not have to...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

I feel like the real question is: Did you settle out of fear? I mean, I wouldn't think its uncommon for stutterers to have an inferiority complex and social anxiety which lead to bad social skills wh...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
3 points

This is a very generic/ personal conclusion which I'm afraid lacks any scientific background. Although, I did read somewhere that stutterers generally score 7 points higher on IQ tests. Which to me, I...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

Exactly! I thought that I was going to be alone for the rest of my life because of my stutter but when you least expect it.............BAM.............it happens!...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
3 points

I was lucky, he has a brother who also stutters. So it was never an issue and I've never gotten even unintentionally weird comments from him...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
4 points

She doesn't really care.We have never actually talked about it,and am too ashamed to bring up the topic.We are 18months in our r/ship and we doing just great.I am so comfortable with her i dont really...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride