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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
16 points

Every day. I hate this curse. Just know its not your fault. You were born like this. Best thing you can do is live and have as much fun as you possible just to spite the universe, god or whatever is r...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

I am sure I have cluttered speech. My husband too. And my daughter. And at least one of my parents. There is supposedly a strong genetic factor. It's incredibly frustrating as a disorder. Some people ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
1 points

Sure, I love the feeling of suffocating! Yay! I love the weird looks I get when I talk! Hooray! In my opinion, this "advice" can only come from someone who has a very mild stutter. I have tried accep...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
3 points

In my own group stutter session, I had minimal stutterers roll their eyes and check their phones while I was blocking. It hurts even more when even my own community treats me like the fluent bullies....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
5 points

Hello! I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. When I was in undergrad, I had to present in one of my classes. I met with the professor before hand about the presentation to set some expectati...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2025
8 points

Don't get humiliated, get angry at them - that is utterly unacceptable, and if you have any route to report them, you really should. I had "if you can't speak properly don't speak at all" from one of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 2, 2025
15 points

My life is horrible.

My life is horrible. I have a block stutter, it is horrible, it makes me want to commit suicide sometimes. I hate it when people mock me, jokingly imitate me, laugh at me, I hate that I can't change i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2025
3 points

I'm gonna be honest with you I have nothing left to lose except of my soul and the only thing it makes my heart feel okay is that not accepting it and I don't really care if people think I'm victimizi...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2025
0 points

šŸ˜’ this ā€œstimulationā€ is not gonna be a magical thing to fix your stutter & ā€œbetterā€ your life. If you’re miserable now, you’ll still be miserable afterwards. Once YOU start to accept that you stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 2, 2025
28 points

Isn't there a way to get rid of this terrible disease? I'm tired of looking like a loser in people's eyes and being pitied by people

Isn't there a way to get rid of this terrible disease? I'm tired of looking like a loser in people's eyes and being pitied by people ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2025
5 points

I’ve been exactly where you are, and honestly, some days I still am. That mental exhaustion is so real, and it’s okay to feel completely drained by it all. Just take it one day at a time, breathe, and...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2025
3 points

This is so sad but true. I was bullied for my stutter whether by my peers or my parents and then people expect me to grow up not completely convinced I’m not likable....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2025
1 points

Its annoying how we would suddenly stutter but just know that those people dont know you anyway LOL. What I do is I just laugh about it then distract myself so I wouldn’t remember the embarrassment🤣...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2025
1 points

Insensitive asshole. Stop trying to proselytize your cult onto people who are vulnerable and need actual help. If someone [rejects](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/s/aIuK8tHECF) your God, you stop. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 30, 2025
4 points

Had an big stutter at work today

Had an big stutter at work today I have been doing a business traineeship at a company for a couple of weeks and today there was a food truck especially for the people of this company so everyone went...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
3 points

I agree with you, I hate also hearing myself stutter and other people stutter. It's very sad Everytime I stutter... Doesn't matter if the day I talked 10 hours perfect and just 1 sentences is enough t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
6 points

I assume this even though many people tell me it's not a problem for then and they don't mind. It doesn't help that I don't have the best view of myself, but I continue to thing they are lying when t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 30, 2025
2 points

Stuttering really heavys ur mental

Stuttering really heavys ur mental Even when stuttering is manageable, or almost gone from practice , the mental burden from past is really heavy....

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Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
8 points

Exactly. After so much time noticing how bothered people get when I stutter, I had an epiphany that the people in my "social" circle were just embarrassed to admit they didn't like being around me. I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 29, 2025
20 points

I just want someone to listen.

I just want someone to listen. I’m a 31 year old male living in NYC/ Long Island. I have a terrific job, great family, people say I’m good looking but I don’t think so, I’m not that tall (5’7ā€). I hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more