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postr/StutterDec 16, 2019
67 points

Anybody else a little frustrated that you can't use Alexa, Siri, Okay Google, etc.?

Anybody else a little frustrated that you can't use Alexa, Siri, Okay Google, etc.? Me: Alexa, play W-w-w-w-w-alking on a dream Alexa: Playing waa waa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
4 points

Such bad advice. When a person is actively seeking a mate they pick up on every little thing, as a stammerer, this comes off in your confidence (inwardly and outwardly) so she will know something is u...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
3 points

Thanks! Maintain the confidence? Well, in that particular instance I’m confident in many of the other areas of being a candidate for that position and was well prepared. So I rested on that I suppose....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
5 points

That's a really difficult question and depends on the situation. However, clinical data shows you will feel less anxious and people view you as higher status when you self disclose non-apologetically....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
2 points

It has helped me to self disclose it but in a non-apologetic way. The more you try to hide, the more it will come up. If this is a deal-breaker for the person, then they are not worth your time. Once ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
3 points

I'm proud of you for attending that interview, it can be very intimidating ! Maintaining my confidence is what I struggle with the most, how do you manage to do that?...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
2 points

I’m sorry man. I understand. Sometimes I can barely hold a conversation and it sucks. I just had an intense job interview in front of 4 chiefs. It was intimidating af. I was flowing good and hit a b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
3 points

Ah it’s not though, it’s actually quite severe. I can temporarily hide it by talking really fast and avoiding certain words, but it’s extremely exhausting for me to do so. I’d say it’s like an 8/10 i...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
8 points

I always mention my stutter before a date. I mean, Its not like I can hide it anyway. If you have a mild stutter then you can hide it. Dates require me to be either drunk or pop a Valium. I usually s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
13 points

Tbh, if you're stutter is mild enough that you can reasonably hide it, I wouldn't mention it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
20 points

I have an upcoming date and I wasn’t planning on mentioning it beforehand or even addressing it on the date, but maybe I should. Usually I just try to hide my stutter on dates... I don’t really know h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 13, 2019
23 points

long post but i feel so grateful for you guys helping me through final presentation :)

long post but i feel so grateful for you guys helping me through final presentation :) **For whoever needs reassurance on their stuttering, this is a long read for you but I feel like I can relate.** ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterDec 12, 2019
7 points

College final presentation

College final presentation Ok so I don’t really know how I feel about this. I’m 20 years old, I’m in college and I’m in an entrepreneurship class. For the whole semester I’ve worked in a group of the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2019
1 points

Absolutely agree with everyone above! The more we resist something, the more afraid we feel. Talk and talk a lot. It’s okay if we stutter. We can’t let this restrict or hinder our opportunities. I t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterDec 11, 2019
32 points

Vent: My boss and the world are so clueless about stuttering....

Vent: My boss and the world are so clueless about stuttering.... Sup lol, just a random rant to reflect on my speech as of late and how it makes me realize how uneducated and misinformed *most* people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
1 points

You think this will work when I am asked to utter where I have to go on a bus? While asking tickets?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
7 points

Yeah I noticed the same about me and I try not think too much about what I'm going to say next. Helps me a lot in phone calls....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 11, 2019
8 points

Stuttering and respect in the workplace

Stuttering and respect in the workplace Hey everyone just venting a bit here. I’ve stuttered for 25 years of my life so far. This year it is the worst it’s ever been. Nevertheless I get through life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
2 points

I feel you bro. I really do :) The only solution I came to - is practice. The more you use the phone the less you'are afraid of it. I don't think there is other way. The most scariest thing here is to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
4 points

The reason u hate the phone is because you have associated it with negativity and stuttering. I would recommend an exercise I’m currently doing; write down on a piece of paper what you wanted to say b...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment