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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

To me it was more about me bullying myself. With all the disorders I have I felt like a inferior black sheep and I also have a mild autism I did not know about until I turned 27 I misunderstood so muc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

I can’t control mine. Mine is a strange one because I’m not bad around my friends but I really struggle speaking to my parents and strangers. So I’d say it’s moderate. I can’t control mine, I don’t ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
8 points

Serious questions

Serious questions I understand that I need to 1000% accept my stutter and realize that it's ok to stutter, In order to make my speech more fluent. But all that accepting and optimism falls face flat o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

In my personal experience my mental state dictated how well I could control my stutter. In my teenage years I was very confident and socialized often which resulted in me not stuttering very often if ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
5 points

It's all in your head, my friend. Get over yourself. I have a stutter, and I also have a college degree, a successful career (of which I have to talk a lot) and am married. Sure stuttering sucks, but ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
2 points

That's wonderful. James Earl Jones can read scripts and deliver lines in his acting career but stutters at other times....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

Thank you for your perceptive comment. I found the character of my friends made all the difference in how I was perceived. The higher the character of my associates, the more accepting they were. That...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I do feel like Natures freak. I do think we are perceived as less, you have to be realistic. Humans aren't supposed to stutter. But then again, I realize life isn't fair. And I shouldn't complain beca...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
14 points

WHY IS THERE SO MUCH FOCUS ON CHILDREN AND NOT ADULTS?

WHY IS THERE SO MUCH FOCUS ON CHILDREN AND NOT ADULTS? Everything is about children, even the general public knows about childhood Stuttering. But then, if you are an adult you sre basically a lost ca...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I have the same. I feel embarrassed for them, cringe and hate them and myself. I guess It's an acceptance thing. I don't want to be a stutterer and it's so painful to admit it that I simply can't stan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I remember reading an experiment done with children a while ago. They had 2 groups of children that stuttered, group A they repeatedly them that their stutter was only temporary and would go away with...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

acceptance is the only path. people either won't care or find you special (even attractive) for having and owning a stutter. ownership of any kind is potent and makes others interested in you....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

I have a rather ”palatable” stutter. It’s mostly repetitions of sounds, the repetitions don’t last long, and the frequency varies a lot. Sometimes I get repetitions nearly every word, sometimes it bar...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Repetitions & ProlongationsSeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
4 points

I recently met someone who was fluent, but the way they spoke gave me the feeling that they either have a stutter, or used to stutter...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
4 points

I think I can definitely spot a fake stutter. I mean, I've seem countless people "start to stutter" because I do. Weirdos. But interestingly enough, I've read some names here that I did not know stutt...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
3 points

I guess that's is because the moment we hear other person stutter we are focused to hear how we sound, and it is awful. Usually when i record myself in a conversation I think: "that's how i sound?, I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
1 points

The main reason stuttering "lessens the chances" of achievements is societal burden from both strangers and people close to the stutterer (family and friends). Having supportive parenting goes a long...

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Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
3 points

It makes sense because you have a stutter. Its cringey because you realize “hey I sound like that”. This experience can be applied to any other insecurity. Example: when I was much larger I would crin...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
5 points

I can't stand it. Tried to join a stuttering advocacy group and I couldn't handle more than half a meeting. May be related to my autism, though...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
1 points

I only think about being a stutterer when I hear someone else struggle to speak. That can be once a year....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception