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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2018
2 points

Are you pushing for speech therapy or is he? By saying it hurts you to hear your brother stutter, I think you never got over yours. Remember, your instincts could go overboard and turn a small prob...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentParent Emotions & Guilt
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2018
3 points

If he were comfortable with his speech I would be okay with it- honestly. My brother is okay with his stutter to this day and while it may hurt me to hear it- Im grateful he’s at peace with it. My so...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationParent Emotions & Guilt
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2018
1 points

When I was young, I expected my stutter to go away at some point. When I realized this was a lifelong condition I was about your age in high school. I also got very depressed and was actually institut...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2018
2 points

It was pretty bad to be honest. To set the scene, I stutter the most when speaking in Chinese although I can speak fluently when I'm alone, it has caused me to get bad grades because the teacher think...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & StoppagesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2018
9 points

started well enough. Then I got a call from my boss to discuss some important stuff and I could barely make it through without blocking on every word. It was incomprehensible and utterly humiliating. ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

Thanks for the clarification! Yeah that’s what I was trying to get at! I’m very very accepting of my stutter by now that it isn’t so restricting to me, but I have felt exactly what you described and i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

Sorry, I was not implying that at all, I was just agreeing with your point that everyone thinks they stutter just because they may get tounge tied while public speaking, it reduces stuttering to "no b...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
1 points

This is just tripping over your words or getting tounge tied, it is not a stutter, you do not fear every social interaction every single day of your life, please don't pretend you know what it's like,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
5 points

Yep, sometimes there are no alternatives, especially when you are asked to choose something, you are forced to say one or the other. I remember a bad experience in Rome, I was having tea and coffee wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2018
2 points

It’s not so much that I’m embarrassed about stuttering, but more so that I don’t want to let my teammate down because we ran out of time. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 23, 2018
38 points

My stuttering is never going away, is it?

My stuttering is never going away, is it? I'm a 16 year old girl that has stuttered really badly since the age of 11. I never had any kind of speech impairment before, it came out of the blue . I've b...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
3 points

I don't know if this is the best advice, but I think its a bad idea to try to hide or mask your eccentricities when it comes to stuttering. I've been stuttering my whole life and it hasn't been much...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2018
4 points

I hate this too. It's a common thing to hear "don't finish their sentences" on educational materials about how to make people who stutter feel welcome, so I wish more people were educated about our di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2018
1 points

Thanks for sharing. (i pasted the two questions she answered on stuttering below) Q: Was it hard to connect with other students? You were just a kid then. I didn’t have friends, but I don’t think i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2018
5 points

When I was younger, I once said "guess, not gonna tell you." And once there was a new teacher, and she let the whole class introduce themselves, I was the last one because I kept my head low. I first...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2018
1 points

You nailed it. I used to purposely arrive late to meetings so I didn't have to participate in the introductions. My name starts with a hard "T" and thats my most difficult sound to make, so it's alway...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2018
3 points

I honestly wish i could give you an answer or solution but I am in the same boat. I wanted to become a journalist when I was young but my dream was crushed when I figured out I had poor communication ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2018
6 points

I can relate. I don’t have much to offer, but I have definitely felt those feelings of being so inhibited by my stutter. So many things I wish I could do...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2018
6 points

I usually don’t outright tell people I stutter. Most people realize I do in the first few minutes of talking to me. Most of them at first look at me weird or laugh a little because they think I’m joki...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2018
3 points

I can get away with not telling people I have a stutter as its super mild most of the time. Most people who notice it and tell me, say its barely noticeable and they only know because of consistencies...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception