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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2019
2 points

If he has a noticable block in his speech and seems frustrated and embarrassed, it would be great to say something like , "I just want to let you know that doesn't bother me- you don't have to be frus...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2019
2 points

I'd recommend leaving it be and waiting for him to bring it up on his own terms. Some people wouldn't mind, but if he ended being someone who does, he might feel awkward or embarrassed like many stutt...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2019
1 points

Fuck “M” yes. One time in school I had to say the word “Muslim” but I was like “Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm” for ages and then I heard people laughing at me. Not a pleasant feeling ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2019
1 points

Man, that must be hard for your identity and possibly fuck you up in all sorts of ways. How about learning to pronounce your name in stead, thereby acknowledging and embracing your stutter? ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2019
1 points

I thought the same way too until my supervisor told me I should work on my disfluency....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2019
3 points

Thank you for telling me this, it makes me feel a little better! I know I sometimes feel embarrass when I get stuck on some sounds while teaching the client how to pronounce certain sounds like /r/, /...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentFluency TechniquesPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2019
3 points

> What eats away at me is people saying they don't mind that I stutter, or generally being supportive. Makes me feel that much worse about hating myself for stuttering. You might want to consider...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 1, 2019
31 points

I am asocial

I am asocial And I feel bad about it. The only conversation I bother having is non-vocal i.e. texting. I don't go to parties, and when I do I dread every second of it. In casual conversation I cann...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
1 points

I get what you mean. I see it both ways. Like I said I used to just giggle and walk away, but it would leave me feeling like shit literally all day long. I feel I’m on top of the world, speaking well,...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
6 points

I understand them poking fun but, I stutter as well and I don't believe that you should make someone feel like crap because of a condition they did not know about. But I understand where your coming f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 27, 2018
5 points

Tensing up while speaking! And Just enjoying life

Tensing up while speaking! And Just enjoying life 18(Y/O) M Basically , Everytime I talk , I just tend to tense up my abdomen and shut my vocal cords (like I stop breathing), regardless of whether I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
2 points

As a woman who stutters, I feel as if that is the issue. When a guy says to me my stutter is “cute” is makes me feel like I’m weak and I need protecting. In actuality my stutter has made me strong....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
5 points

> too shy too post anything really, you shouldn't be shy. no one knows you IRL. putting that in mind makes it easier for me to post...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
29 points

I gotta say I'm just too shy too post anything. Also this here is my first post ever on reddit...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
2 points

Almost everyone I know has said that it's cute or endearing in some way and I really can't stand it. Don't tell it's cute, it's a part of me that I can't stand and it's a little insulting, telling me ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
6 points

Personally, I'd find it really patronizing. When I'm stuttering, I'm struggling! It's not cute....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
1 points

Only old ladies... Whether people find it cute or not probably depends on the severity of the stutter. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
3 points

Most exes have said this to me. I am completely baffled by it. I think it's because it's something that I have so much contempt for can be seen as "cute"....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
7 points

I disagree, don’t ask your girlfriend if it’s meant to be a positive thing or not. It’s up to you! How does it make you feel when she says it? Personally when people tell me my stutter is cute it fe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2018
1 points

I hate that I make certain head movements when stuttering as if im trying to jump over a hurdle with my head. I feel so stupid and ashamed afterwards. ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension