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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

I cold approached my wife in the college cafeteria during a meal. She was curious enough to stay with me for over 25+ years....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
5 points

You need to learn more about women. Not all of them are fixated on vapid things. That's just your imagination. Women are interested in all kinds of people....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

Not a dude but I have this guy online friend that I talk with everyday and it's after few months that I discover he also have a stutter. We both hiding it because we thought it's irrelevant for our fr...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

My partner has a stutter. His stutter was probably the worst on our first date more than any other time I've been with him. At first, it caught me off guard. He didn't disclose it before the date, an...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

If I'm being completely honest with myself, my stutter has never really been the issue - it's my lack of conversation skills (although, it can be argued that this is a long term consequence of having ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

All my girlfriends found my stuttering “cute”. I fucking despise stuttering and don’t view it as cute. Play the field - you’re bound to find a girl who thinks your speech is cute....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

NOt sure if mentioned, but the actor who did the scene is real life stutterer....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

Yea also a lot of people, when you spent enough time with them will block out your stutter and they don’t really notice it anymore after a while...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

You may want to give voluntary stuttering a try. From personal experience, it was extremely difficult to get myself to do it( 2 years!), but its a very empowering experience. You are stuttering on p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterApr 24, 2023
33 points

Stammering pride from the highest point in Thailand. Be bold in this identity, for you and the way you communicate holds value. This can be a shared journey reach out the community is there. #stammeringpride #stutteringawareness #stammeringawareness

Stammering pride from the highest point in Thailand. Be bold in this identity, for you and the way you communicate holds value. This can be a shared journey reach out the community is there. #stammeri...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

Yep thanks are u a stammerer dude like me 👀...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

these therapist, like they charge alot, im just improving it myself, "Your greatest enemy is your brain, if you control it, you conquered the world", and yeah this quote i made it ig hehehe, so yeah i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

I'm 27 and also have a severe stutter. I used to be where OP is, now I'm slowly getting closer to where you are. OP, what he's telling you is true. You just have to embrace it. When I was your age, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
10 points

Its my belief that therapy is not effective, until negative emotions are recognized and fear is accepted. >Communication is very important in everything and not being able to is destroying me ment...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

I worded that part a bit wrong. It’s possible and very common with a stutter, but not possible if you fully take control of your stutter, which requires the not caring what others think, putting yours...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
5 points

You should check out Life On Delay by John Hendrickson. He works for the Atlantic and talks a lot about his professional career and the everyday struggles he faces as a person who stutters in the offi...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

You don’t think it’s possible to misunderstood or misrepresent yourself with a stutter? Gosh I feel like constantly switching out words for synonyms, changing phrasing, tone or even topics means that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I feel that unless you have an extremely severe stutter it is not that possible to be misunderstood or misrepresent yourself. If you’re being misunderstood or misrepresenting yourself it might just be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

This is what I struggle with - how do you deal with the trigger of not being understood/misrepresenting yourself? I think for me that’s a big hurdle. You seem like an intelligent person - how do you r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Regarding your first question, there was a bit of hypocrisy in me suggesting that you transform your mindset, since I myself haven’t fully accomplished that yet, only made some considerable progress. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more