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postr/StutterMay 26, 2023
7 points

I Am Not My Stutter - National Stuttering Association

I Am Not My Stutter - National Stuttering Association I thought this was interesting...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2023
1 points

О, о, да, я постоянно чувствую легкое пренебрежение учителей, когда отвечаю на их уроках.Некоторые намеренно перебивают меня.Некоторые люди вообще делают тебя человека с ограниченными возможностями и ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
2 points

If you've seen it have a positive effect and transfer to the real world then I'm happy, but I am respectfully skeptical. It feels like speech tools; they work great in safe environments but reliably f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
0 points

I get the sense that I'm older than most here, and just want to give people some encouragement. The mindset I have about it now is not the one I had when I was young. Just want people to know that it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
3 points

I agree completely with speech therapy being counter productive for the reasons you outlined. If anything it does make the guilt and shame worse beyond what you mentioned, it tries to teach you to spe...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHumor & Community ToneIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
4 points

Blocking is not a core disfluency behavior. It feels like it is but it's not. I have learned to not block but I still stutter. Nothing is locking your vocal folds other than you. You are doing it and ...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
2 points

When I used to focus on being more fluent, I was so much more depressed, but now that I've been told, my stutter is a neurological. It took a major weight off my shoulders, cause I always blamed mysel...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMay 24, 2023
10 points

Has Your Stutter Gone Away When You Pretended To Be Someone Else?

Has Your Stutter Gone Away When You Pretended To Be Someone Else? I've been a long time stutterer but there have been some phases in my life where it's completely gone away. Usually in those phases ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
7 points

Yeah, I've been ashamed all my life, and I hate myself when I stutter, I just go over and over in my head saying why didn't I just say nothing, indeed I've had a lifetime of saying nothing whe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
3 points

I'm not being negative or pessimistic. I am being a realist. I openly live and don't hide or disguise my stutter which i have had since childhood. I am almost 40yrs old. A lot of the stutterers i se...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
2 points

Fuck no, my stutter stems out of violence and trauma. Might as well be a disfiguring scar that, when witnessed, the public can't handle and family is ashamed of. It's not who I was, but I guess it is ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
2 points

Stuttering is factually part of your authentic self unless your stuttering comes from any trauma or any other psychological obstacle that is unrelated to your stuttering. Your fake self is hiding the ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
1 points

I often forget I have it, because I am so used to it. I stopped giving a shit. Yes, it is a part of me...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
2 points

Yes I do! I don’t know if you believe in energy or spiritual concepts at all. But lately I have started thinking that my stammer is actually blocked energy. And that specifically, it’s a blocked heart...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
3 points

I know it's part of me but also, it's not really me. I tell people that it's like there's a troll living in my brain. That troll's name is James. He interrupts me a lot. Sometimes.... when I pause, ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
2 points

No. Its just like how I don’t consider my height or my weight as part of my authentic self, they’re physical attributes I have not who I am. The stutter has shaped my experiences but I think I would b...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
9 points

I don't see it as part of my identity, because it's not the result of my personality or something I did. At the same time it's something that's inextricably attached to me, and it has a huge impact on...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 23, 2023
24 points

Do you consider your stutter to be part of your authentic self?

Do you consider your stutter to be part of your authentic self? It feels like my stutter is not part of who I am. Even when I stutter freely without shame for judgement I still feel like it is somethi...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
4 points

I was once in your postion. I too were a social and attentive kid growing up with loads of friends whom I could flawlessly speak with. Then something hit and i began to stutter. One of my worst mistak...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
2 points

I’ve always was very talkative as a child, I would also participate in spelling bees and funnily argue with other students in recess.I guess I was given the bad gene and as I gotten older I lost the e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment